Again, I will say this here, and again, I will say something ad nauseum.
This thread is on judgement - it could be homosexuality, abortion, stealing, cheating, fraud, lying (and anyone who says they've never lied is lying right there and then!!!), etc., etc. It is not limited to homosexuality. Ive had an abortion, Ive stole, Ive cheated, Ive lied and I have asked for forgiveness from the Lord and those who I sinned against. However, in my corner of the world, I have already been judged as a bad person, someone to be shunned, and they are not willing to admit that I have changed a long time ago since those days - they have judged me, period. That is what Cheri was trying to say, judge ye not, for only the Lord can judge you. I keep trying to make the people around me see that I have changed over 16+ years ago, and I know that my family and good friends have seen it, and trust me totally and completely. Its just those people that HOLD on to the past, and see the world negatively. Sometimes you have to let go of your prejudices, open your minds to new possibilities, and see how people change through the years. If you judge them, then you are HOLDING on to the past, and not willing to admit that people do have the right to change, and do change for the better. When you judge, then you are saying that it is that, your mind is made up, and no one will make you change your mind. In other words, you have made for a very narrow mindset and a very dark observation on the human soul. For that, I hope that someday you will be able to see what we are, sinners, yeah, we are, but also human and capable of forgiveness and acceptance.