Jiro,
Why I should live independent from family and live on my own but if I find a job to pay rent in apartment or condo?
Because that's what REAL adults do in USA.
Do you want to be a real Adult? a Real grown up MAN?
If yes, then you pay for your own apt, your own food, your own education and act like an adult!
anyone who wants to date me? lol
NO - no one wants to date you Matajan !
You want Ivy League, Smart, WHITE, rich, woman - you don't care who they are as a person - just that they have lots of money as went to Ivy League school. Right ?
But why would THEY want to date you??
Do YOU have lots of money? Are you RIGHT NOW, RICH? (not your parents, YOU)?
Do YOU go to REAL Ivy League (not extension school REAL Ivy)?
Are YOU very smart - smart doesn't mean IQ Matajan it means being articulate (being able to write very well, communicate with others very well), knowledgeable, being able to find out the answers to questions on your own using books in the library, or the internet etc.
Women are looking for guys who are NICE, communicate well, LISTEN (pay attention to what they sign, write etc), are respectful about them as a person - not just where they went to school!
Women don't want guys who show up at their work without being invited - because then the woman gets in trouble with the boss, maybe even FIRED because you show up!!
Women don't want someone who shows up at their house/apt/dorm without the woman ASKING the guy to visit - because it's rude and because maybe the woman is in the shower, or sleeping, or not feeling well as doesn't want to have you visit.
Women so not like if a guy finds the woman's phone number or address on the internet, or the phone book and then calls the woman without asking first - and doesn't like if the guy asked friends to give you her number.
Doing all those things are RUDE in USA Matajan. In other countries maybe it is different but in USA it's rude.
DO you understand all the things I've said here, Matajan??
Do you understand that women don't like rude guys, not for dating, not for marriage and not even for just friends.
If you want to meet nice, smart, Ivy girl then you need to find a tutor that will help you learn how to write English better so that when you talk to women or text them, or email them or write on paper notes for them - they see you are smart because you write well.
Many people think that if you can't write very well, then you are not smart. Especially if you are looking for very smart Ivy League women... then want a guy that can write well so they can get nice notes from their boyfriend!