It's ok to be single and happy

[Vance]

I give you an AMEN! I went thru 2 years of hell that is called marriage. Just last Saturday, I ended up with a steel-toed boot to my ribs from the ex wife. Right now im writing this post with pretty aching ribs. What a way to ruin my xmas and vacation at the same time!

<----Heading for Divorce Court in 2005. I will feel better once I get to my pre-marriage days (with a bit of change like paying child support and working 2 jobs)

Wow, I hope everything will work out alright for you and your kids. Marriage can be pain in ass sometimes (I cannot speak for myself since I didn't have any marriage experience yet).

 

[Banjo]

My parents has been married for 32 years and counting. They are happy together.

I guess some people just have bad luck.

 

[sablescort]

Ouch. That had to hurt, I've experienced getting hurt by a lot of things. But never by a steel-toed boot.

I'm sorry to hear of your marriage not working out too well, but I know you care a lot about your daughter. Your daughter does need a lot of love and support from you knowing what conditions she is in. I wish you the best for a smooth divorce and hope you get it easy on supporting your child without getting all tied up in these legal bullshit.

Have a Merry Christmas and a New Year.

Thanks banjo....

I do hope its smooth sailing but there are sometimes a bit of rough winds but that happens once in a while.

If I had one thing to regret, I would have wished that I said NO to her when she asked me to come back to her after a 3-month breakup as I was about to get serious with another girl that I met at a Homecoming held at my old HS. The day she came back to me was the same time my daughter got conceived. Well looks like I did choose the wrong door after all, but I can still go and chance on opening the right door if the timing is right. But for now, I'd love to take a retirement from romancing........

However if there is a silver lining in the cloud, its my kid and the fact I still have a steady employment, a good family to help me out once in a while, you name it...

 

[Sweetexpress]

the magnet

Oh, if only it were so easy to keep them away by wearing that negative magnet necklace! Thank you for the smile.

The other day, my former bf, who I had just broken off with, dropped off some Christmas gifts at my door while I was away. I had already told him we were no longer "sweethearts" so I thought he must really want me to have them. When I sent an email to thank him and tell them he didn't need to do that, he answered by asking for the gifts I had bought him! I told him I had taken them back and he pouted like a child and told me he wanted me to go back out and re-buy them. ..... I didn't.

Yes, I am going to enjoy single life for a while..............

 

[SoundWave]

Oh, if only it were so easy to keep them away by wearing that negative magnet necklace! Thank you for the smile.

The other day, my former bf, who I had just broken off with, dropped off some Christmas gifts at my door while I was away. I had already told him we were no longer "sweethearts" so I thought he must really want me to have them. When I sent an email to thank him and tell them he didn't need to do that, he answered by asking for the gifts I had bought him! I told him I had taken them back and he pouted like a child and told me he wanted me to go back out and re-buy them. ..... I didn't.

Yes, I am going to enjoy single life for a while..............

that is good start for you . I hope you will find someone who cherish and honor you in your future.

 

[Fly Free]

I give you an AMEN! I went thru 2 years of hell that is called marriage. Just last Saturday, I ended up with a steel-toed boot to my ribs from the ex wife. Right now im writing this post with pretty aching ribs. What a way to ruin my xmas and vacation at the same time!

<----Heading for Divorce Court in 2005. I will feel better once I get to my pre-marriage days (with a bit of change like paying child support and working 2 jobs)

OMG Sablescort im sorry to hear abt this!!! thats awful u had to endure that kind of treatment from ur ex wife -- she should have never done that to u!

Sablescort please do take care of urself!

 

[wisdomlady]

THANK GOD I always be single and never been married... I had 3 sour relationships in my life..all of my 3 ex-b/f cheated on me...the last one I had was the last straw for me... I kicked my ex-b/f out of the apt on 9/11 when the wtc collapsed...we have been together for 9 1/2 yrs...I caught him with his lady pregnant...

There are 3 reasons why I don't want to have a relationship:

1) men are pain in the ass
2) men like to give women headaches
3) men like to give women heartaches

now you see why I am not thrilled in having a relationship...I rather be single than in unhappy relationship...To all men reading this comments, pls don't feel offended by what I have said...I have been happily single for 4 years and love it every minute of my life...

 

[LovelyBlkGal]

I'm happy be single.. since last mah ex b/f left me for another gurl last couple month ago so i m move on mah life now and fouce(sp) work and everythings But i do miss havin relationship oh well i'm not worry abt that

 

[TweetyBird]

i am happy and single right now.. i moved on since my ex gf cheated with someone!!! *rme*

 

[Gemtun]

i am happy and single right now.. i moved on since my ex gf cheated with someone!!! *rme*

What? i thought you had a good visit with her in Arizona a few weeks ago ? *scratching my head*

It is nice to be single this weekend because I can do whatever I want...eating in my bed and leave crumbs all over without him complaining...or sleeping in late without getting disturbed or doing my own thing without compromising :fruit:

 

[TTT]

See there....

I know the feeling. I'm getting older and am having a hard time finding someone to date. Right now, I rather just have a very good friend who's very open-minded and easier to do things with. I was with someone like that, but there was a major complication that didn't fit. That's why I'm single again.

That is what men want me to do... using me... and getting free sex
without have to pay me roses, not take me out dinner or movies...
And stuff... Telling everybody that I am just his friend.
And that is not fair... cuz I don't get the orgasm... sex doesn't
feel good to me. I only had pressure and not pleasure... sex is so painful.
Ouch!!! Feel like a knife stabbing inside.... but he was getting all the pleasure, orgasm, and I can hear him moaning and groaning. Him sweating and stuff.
I told my friend, that I can't do this anymore... I would stay with him
and let him poke at me anytime he wants if he just gives me love. If not
then I am leaving. He got angry with me. I am not going to be his sex buddy or sex slave.

 

[wisdomlady]

[I told my friend, that I can't do this anymore... I would stay with him
and let him poke at me anytime he wants if he just gives me love. If not
then I am leaving. He got angry with me. I am not going to be his sex buddy or sex slave.[/QUOTE]


YAYYY...I AM SO TIRED OF MEN TREATING WOMEN AS A SEX OBJECT...IT PISSED ME OFF BIG TIME...I DON'T, I WON'T, AND I WOULD NOT BE HIS SEX SLAVE...GOOD FOR YOU...GO 4 IT ...I AM SURE YOU WILL FIND A MAN WHO WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU FOR WHO U ARE AND RESPECT YOU...

 

[wisdomlady]

i am happy and single right now.. i moved on since my ex gf cheated with someone!!! *rme*

SO DO I...I MOVE ON AND ENJOY MY SINGLE LIFE EVERY MINUTE OF MY LIFE...SMILE... CHIRP CHIRP TWEET TWEET HEEH

 

[wisdomlady]

I'm happy be single.. since last mah ex b/f left me for another gurl last couple month ago so i m move on mah life now and fouce(sp) work and everythings But i do miss havin relationship oh well i'm not worry abt that

NAH I DONT MISS HAVING A RELATIONSHIP...BUT I DO MISS THE SINGLE MOMENT I.E. THE CANDLELIGHT DINNER 4 TWO, WATCHING GOOD MOVIE WITH A MAN, SITTING BY THE FIREPLACE WITH A MAN...

SOME DAY I KNOW I WILL FIND A NICE MAN WHO WILL ALWAYS LOVE ME AND RESPECT MY FEELINGS...SMILE I AM SURE YOU WILL FIND ONE...WINK

 

[LovelyBlkGal]

NAH I DONT MISS HAVING A RELATIONSHIP...BUT I DO MISS THE SINGLE MOMENT I.E. THE CANDLELIGHT DINNER 4 TWO, WATCHING GOOD MOVIE WITH A MAN, SITTING BY THE FIREPLACE WITH A MAN...

SOME DAY I KNOW I WILL FIND A NICE MAN WHO WILL ALWAYS LOVE ME AND RESPECT MY FEELINGS...SMILE I AM SURE YOU WILL FIND ONE...WINK

True I agree w/you one day there will line men for you and make sure trust this person as long not gonna happen even again

 

[TTT]

here the list my mom gave me...

MEN TO AVOID.

1. Guys who have a dirty mind.
2. Guys who have no job.
3. Guys who fart and burp too much.
4. Guys who are a control freak.
5. Guys who get angry and upset after losing boardgame.
6. Guys who got bad credits, he will asked you to pay all of his debts.
7. Ask his ex girlfriend how he treated her.
8. Guys who tell you that he thinks every girl is after his money.
9. If he wears a little makeup or walk like a girl, he’s gay.
10. He’s trying to casually check out the other woman.
11. Avoid momma's boy. Or guys who need their frat brothers around.
12. Guys who smoke pots or do drugs or drink heavily.
13. Guys who hit you.
14. Guys who are gamblers.
15. Guys who are womanizers.

WOMEN TO AVOID.

1. Women who have low self esteem.
2. Women who bad mouthed men.
3. Women with bad attitude, bipolar, or PMS.
4. Women who hit you.
5. Women who tell their parents or gossip about you.
6. Women who dressed like a whore.
7. Women who are drug addicted, smoked pots, or drink heavily.
8. Women who are materialistic.
9. Women who create drama and get all emotional for no reason.
10. Women who are lazy.
11. Women who are with their mother or female friends by their sides.
12. Women who won't cook for you or do laundry for you sometimes.
13. Women who don't like sex or not interested in sex.
14. Women who are a control freak
15. Women who fart or burp too much.

Did I miss anything???

 

[TweetyBird]

What? i thought you had a good visit with her in Arizona a few weeks ago ? *scratching my head*

It is nice to be single this weekend because I can do whatever I want...eating in my bed and leave crumbs all over without him complaining...or sleeping in late without getting disturbed or doing my own thing without compromising :fruit:

i found out that my ex gf cheated on me so i busted her! i told her it OVER! she begged me for back, i refused back with her cuz of not WORTH!

 

[TweetyBird]

SO DO I...I MOVE ON AND ENJOY MY SINGLE LIFE EVERY MINUTE OF MY LIFE...SMILE... CHIRP CHIRP TWEET TWEET HEEH

hahahaha!!! umm, do i know u? if i do then PM me...

 

[Vance]

THANK GOD I always be single and never been married... I had 3 sour relationships in my life..all of my 3 ex-b/f cheated on me...the last one I had was the last straw for me... I kicked my ex-b/f out of the apt on 9/11 when the wtc collapsed...we have been together for 9 1/2 yrs...I caught him with his lady pregnant...

There are 3 reasons why I don't want to have a relationship:

1) men are pain in the ass
2) men like to give women headaches
3) men like to give women heartaches

now you see why I am not thrilled in having a relationship...I rather be single than in unhappy relationship...To all men reading this comments, pls don't feel offended by what I have said...I have been happily single for 4 years and love it every minute of my life...

No offense :P Even though that list can be apply to women too. I mean women are pain in the ass, can give men headaches, can give men hard time, etc etc..

Basically, all of people need to find 'right' or rather, 'compatible' lovers. What does help me to be a 'best' man by do opposite what my dad did. Also read many relationship books (John Gray and others)... helped lots. I must admit that I am not perfect man on this earth... never will be but I learned lot and know which is right and wrong (mostly :P) in relationship issue.

 

[Vance]

I couldn't edit my post.. I cannot believe that I forget to add one word. Let me correct one of my comment in my previous post: 'no offense taken'

Cheers.