Tricky question Shel. On one hand I feel that men and woman have differences that I tend to love and celebrate, the whole man/woman, black/white/ying/yang....two opposite sides to form the whole....I love the differences between my b/f and I. but in work sites and in households, yes, there should be a sense of equality, equal pay for equal jobs. In the house, when I was married, my hubby did more of the fix-ups, and I did more of the gardening, these were just utilizing our strengths and likes, would have been stupid to say that we had to split both chores in half and each do parts...know what I mean. rambling on now, hope some of that made sense.
What are you going to get your partner (or best freind or child)for x-mas this year? What do you want santa to bring you?