it disrespectful to boyfriend? girlfriend go out party one night with friend

MyNameIsNO said:
my friend told me boyfriend kept text her whine that he think she give other guy b*j* and touch his dick. (sorry graphic language but that his exact word) then he force her take picture of boy with cellphone. bec he want see what boy look like, then he saw picture and yell at her bec he think boy look sexier than him. he very jealous!! but my friend never touch or spoke to boy. she ask me "what me do with my boyfriend, he keep accuse me cheat on him" i text her back and i say "do things show him you love him and faithful. show him you want only him not other man." but i feel think he is very psycho controller man. i keep mouth shut and let my friend decision herself.
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It sounds like your friend has done things like this in the past and maybe that is the reason the boyfriend is paranoid. This relationship isn't going to last if the dude has reason to believe she is going to be giving someone a BJ. Although, some women do thrive on drama.
 
MyNameIsNO said:
my friend told me boyfriend kept text her whine that he think she give other guy b*j* and touch his dick. (sorry graphic language but that his exact word) then he force her take picture of boy with cellphone. bec he want see what boy look like, then he saw picture and yell at her bec he think boy look sexier than him. he very jealous!! but my friend never touch or spoke to boy. she ask me "what me do with my boyfriend, he keep accuse me cheat on him" i text her back and i say "do things show him you love him and faithful. show him you want only him not other man." but i feel think he is very psycho controller man. i keep mouth shut and let my friend decision herself.
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The guy sounds like a control freak. It is up to your friend if she wants to continue the relationship or not. A few of my friends are married to control freaks and they complain to me about their husbands. I no longer give advice because I have tried without success. All I do is just listen and trry not to pass judgement on their hubbies. They have the power to do something about it, not me.
 
There's another view that you all may have to think about it... if her B/F know alot about her and her behavior. If she drink alcohol, her behavior will change a lot, you know? He could be controlling or not to trust her when she drink, so really we have no idea how she will behave when she drink.... It's like husband or B/F, who is very nice guy, very helpful and such.. when he drink.. he abused her... dynamically changed, right? You all heard about this stories..too many time... same with women... Alcohol... it's hard to stay stable...

So, don't jump the gun about thinking he's controlling or mad at her.. unless we see it in our own eyes...
 
that true, oh well i let her choosing decision she want stay with him or not. that her problem so i say nothing. i know she will broke up him soon, bec no girl want suffer from control forever. soon she will frustrate and give up on him.
 
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