horselover61
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FeistyChick said:i was going to say something.. but i didn't want to send out negative messages/misleading messages... i am glad you brought this up..
just a tad bit advise.. (i learned this from my close friends) ... it is better to keep the pregnancy MUM UNTIL SHE PASSES HER 3RD TRIMESTER.. that way you guys will know she is "safe" .. if you get my drift.. and then you GUYS CAN ANNOUNCE TO THE WORLD ALL YOU WANT!!
because my close friend who had her baby yesterday.. miscarried last summer.. wished she never told anyone about her first pregnancy cuz they were devastated.. so when she got preggers for the 2nd time.. they kept IT MUM UNTIL SHE PASSED HER 3RD TRIMESTER...
but i understand your excitement.. it is very normal for first-timers... but like you said... KEEP THE FAITH!!! so hang in there!!!
MUM til after the 3rd trimester Yikes she will be showing at that time. It's better to mum til after the 1st trimester.