Is Cybersex Really Cheating?

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Some People who are in a Relationship or Marriage are addiction to porn on the Internet. Do you think that is Cheating?


And Do you think Cybersex Chats are Harmless? For Example (chat rooms with women/Men from all over the country. They discuss intimate sexual activities...Would u Call that Cheating?
 
Yeah, it is cheating. If your heart and mind think about sex with another, then it's being unfaithful. It always start with the thoughts, if one should start talking about it, then will ultimately end up acting on it.
 
Well, to me it is, but to some it isn't...so, I guess it's depending on the person
 
Looking at pornography is not cheating, but cybersex is.
 
Banjo said:
Looking at pornography is not cheating, but cybersex is.
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Banjo, you got that right technically but I know many women who resent that their men look at pornography and have begged them to stop looking at them. Most men refuse to stop looking at pornography.

It is not cheating but it is disrespect of men to ignore their wives' pleas becaues most women are uncomfortable with men looking at young, perfect women.


For cybersex, if a married man or a man involved in a commitment engages in cybersex with a woman online and hiding it, it is cheating because he is not respecting sacredness of his marriage. I hear so many of marriages breaking up over that.
 
Phone Sex

Well, I would really say it is cheating. But Phone sex is not, cuz u can acctually hear their voices, plus if anyone wants to have phone sex, gimmie a call at ....330-527-5372 ask for zac. Or you can email me at, zmacek@mail.garfield.sparcc.org.....or you can get at me at my aol name mymixtape70x7...remember...PHONE SEX IS GOOD
 
DEAFNIGGAfasho said:
Well, I would really say it is cheating. But Phone sex is not, cuz u can acctually hear their voices, plus if anyone wants to have phone sex, gimmie a call at ....330-527-5372 ask for zac. Or you can email me at, zmacek@mail.garfield.sparcc.org.....or you can get at me at my aol name mymixtape70x7...remember...PHONE SEX IS GOOD
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You are at the wrong forum. How can the majority of us want to do phone sex when we are deaf? Use your brains... :nono:
 
DEAFNIGGAfasho said:
Well, I would really say it is cheating. But Phone sex is not, cuz u can acctually hear their voices, plus if anyone wants to have phone sex, gimmie a call at ....330-527-5372 ask for zac. Or you can email me at, zmacek@mail.garfield.sparcc.org.....or you can get at me at my aol name mymixtape70x7...remember...PHONE SEX IS GOOD
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huh? spam? :spam:
 
Meg said:
You are at the wrong forum. How can the majority of us want to do phone sex when we are deaf? Use your brains... :nono:
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:lol: I can't image, I would scare the men away cuz my voice sounds like a monkey's voice. I am :deaf:
 
Sabrina said:
:lol: I can't image, I would scare the men away cuz my voice sounds like a monkey's voice. I am :deaf:
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hahahahahaha

Imagine setting up a TTY sex line ..that would get very interesting! You go for it and become Madam Sabrina :nana:
 
Deaf258 said:
Yeah, it is cheating. If your heart and mind think about sex with another, then it's being unfaithful. It always start with the thoughts, if one should start talking about it, then will ultimately end up acting on it.
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I agree here. If you're in a committed relationship with one and resort to cybersex with another, then apparently your heart and mind are elsewhere.
 
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It depends on your definition of "cybersex".

Meg said:
Then what is your definition of cybersex?
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Well cybersex is cybersex because they talk to each other online. No thanks! Looking at the porn is fine. Cybersex is a cheating for sure because there is similuating between two humans.
 
Malfoyish said:
I agree here. If you're in a committed relationship with one and resort to cybersex with another, then apparently your heart and mind are elsewhere.
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Same with looking at porno. If your heart is in it, that's where your faithfulness lies.
 
Heh! I have no interest whatsoever in porno. :) I'm perfectly satisfied with my honey.
 
Pornography is not cheating. It is just looking at pictures..there is no live interaction between both. No one is investing emotionally in that

Some people do cybersex without any emotions..just a way to "get their rocks off" without investing any emotions yet remain attached to their partners. Some go way beyond the line and become very emotionally attached.

But I still have a thing with men refusing to give up pornography for their women ...what do you call that? I have a good friend whose husband looks at pornography every single day and ignores her pleas to give her more attention. It is not cheating but he is robbing her of quality attention.
 
depends on the person tho.. but cybersex means NOTHING really it is like harmless flirting unless u do something about it like wantin to make it real then meet some1 else behind his back then it's completely different story but eh.. really blah I had been thru crap with cybersex I prefer REAL thing PERIOD!
 
To me, I think "cybersex" is good for people who are single, not for married couple/sweethearts/or lovers. I've never been in cybersex. Sometimes, it hurts both men and women's feelings when either one of them discovers that one of them is involved in cybersex with someone else... and THIS will betray their self-esteem. Women are more sensitive than men, because women tends to ask one self, "What's wrong with me?" or "Is she better than me?" and all that. It's why it's best to say that it is NOT for married couple/sweethearts/or lovers...only for single people. More safer this way. That's my IMO! :)
 
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