I have a profound loss in both ears, it is a progressive loss. Consequently I grew up in the hearing world and do not know sign language. When I am not wearing my aids I am literally deaf. I cannot communicate with others, although I can read lips somewhat, can't talk on the phone, listen to the T.V, watch a movie and understand what's going on, etc. When I wear my aids I can hear a lot of things but it's nowhere close to normal hearing, and I know I misunderstand a lot of things that are said to me. Ever notice that smirky look some people get when you misunderstand something. Or the guy that thinks he's a smart ass and starts waving the pen around behind your back when you misinterpret something. But to tell people that can hear that I am deaf would be a waste of time, they just don't understand, so I say hard of hearing, which to them is obvious.