Interpretrator said:
... Which is why when I socialize in the deaf community it's with people I am very unlikely to end up working with, but I am very lucky in that I live in an area with many different deaf communities, so am able to do this.
That's what usually happens for me but in my case it is mostly a generational thing. Most of my clients are young singles. Most of the Deaf social groups that I attend are older married people. It just happens that way.
It does bother me that at Deaf functions, I almost never see another terp, except for a few CODA terps (who show up as family members rather than terps). I mean,
years go by without seeing another terp at a Deaf get together. I notify them of events, invite them, remind them, offer rides, etc. But they don't show up.
The worst thing is, the lack of participation in the Deaf community by public school terps. I never see them at terp workshops or conferences either. What's up? (Oh, oh, don't get me started.)
In situations where clients are also friends, we are aware that our roles are different during "working" hours than during our "social" hours. If there is any problem or confusion about the roles, it is best to clarify the situation before or after the assignment (depending on the circumstances), privately.
I guess I'm used to the role switching, even before I became a terp. When I was in the Navy, I was an enlisted person. Enlisted and officer are not supposed to fraternize. But my best friend (and maid of honor) was an officer. When we were in uniform, I called her Lieutenant XYZ, said "yes m'am", and saluted. She called me Petty Officer ABC, and gave me orders. After hours, we used our first names and were as casual as can be. No problem.
Maybe it helped that we literally dressed differently for each role. I guess, in a way, I do that with terping. At work, most of my clothes are plain and dark. After hours, I dress in bright patterns, with shiny, sometimes noisey, jewelry.