A lot of guys don't want to put in the effort when it comes to situations like ours. A lot of girls don't want to put in the effort when it comes to situations like ours. Personally, it shows me how shallow and close minded a person can be, and I won't give them a second thought. However, some people will put in an effort for the chase, or the challenge, but once they get what they want they leave. This is from my own personal experience. He may be pretty, and you may feel strong attraction to him, but know your worth, and you are NOT a toy. You are a person. I wish you luck with this, and hope the best for you... be open, but be cautious. Not everyone who smiles at you and is nice to you is worthy of being your friend.