I'm Seeking For Mr.right

farewell65 said:
Yea I know DSC is sux, I am member of DSC and I just ignoring till any women send me smiles or bs then I will check it out, ha
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DSC s piece of garbage unless you pay for upgrade whereas you can send or get emails.
 
In my opinion, It's not all about finding the Mr. or Mrs. Right. It is all about knowing it in your heart to see if that person is the right one for you. Sometime things are meant to be but then, things happens when you don't expect it.

So, I'm saying it will happen one way or other. It just doesn't mean that it will happen right away. Eventually, it will.
 
Bigqueen

Column on 'Mr.Right' still able to hit home after all these years

Dear Ann: Several years ago, you printed a column telling women how to find "Mr.Right." After I went through a messy divorce, I gave that column to my daughter so she wouldn't make the same mistake her parents did.

I'am happy to tell you she handed that column to me last Sunday just before I walked her down the aisle at her wedding. She had written on it, "Dad, thank you for this list. I will not be needing it anymore. I love you." Please print that column again for those who may have missed it.-Proud Dad in Dunedin, Fla.

Dear Dad: I'm glad to know my column helped your daughter find the man of her dreams, and I'am happy to print it again.

Dear Ann: With all the columns you've written about finding "Mr.Right," many women still don't understand the basics. I've compiled a list of guidelines that will be extremely helpful if followed correctly. I hope you will print it. It could change alot of lives.-Merrillville, Ind.

Dear merrillville: You have made some valid points. A reader from Quebec sent a similar list two years ago. Both lists provide excellent suggestions for husband hunting. Here is an edited version of A Perfect Guide for Husband Hunting:

1. You probably won't find Mr. Right in a bar, or on the internet. Try grocery stores, church, where you work or through a friend.

2. If he tells you he is married or engaged or has a girlfriend, he's separated or his wife or girlfriend or fiancee doesn't understand him- he has TROUBLE stamped on his forehead.

3. If he tries to move in with you or wants to borrow money, be careful. He may be a con artist.

4. If his family doesn't like him and avoids him, maybe you should too. They know him better than you do.

5. Check out his car or his bedroom. It should be clean, serviceable and insured.

6. If he has children, decide if you want to marry him or be his girlfriend or engaged to him, too, because that is the way it will be. And be aware that they are direct link to his ex-wife or ex-girlfriends.

7. You don't need a man to be a complete woman. Choose the man- don't let him choose you. Be selective. No one has the power to make you happier than the right man or more miserable than the wrong one.

8. Find someone who laughs at the same things you laugh at. A shared sense of humor will make the good times better and the bad times less difficult.

9. If you want several children and plan to stay home and raise them, choose a man whose skills and education will put him in a high salary category.

10. If you want a career, don't marry a man who hates his job. He will resent the time and attention you give to yours.

11. Two red flags: Does he have a short fuse and a hot temper ? Is he hung up on his mother ? These are two negatives that inevitably get worse after marriage. Both can be disastrous.

12. Don't get married because you are afraid to be alone. No wife is more alone than one whose husband pays no attention to her.

13. No matter how wonderful his other qualities may be, do not marry a man who has threatened, hit or humilated you. In fact, don't go out with him a second time. Such a man is hazardous to your emotional and physical health and should be avoided like the plague.

14. Pay attention to how he treats his mother. Chances are good that he will treat you the same way.

BIGQUEEN64 said:
I AM NOT INTERESTED IN THE DATING SERVICES BESIDES I KNOW ALMOST EVERYONE IN THE COMMUNITY THAT I DONT WANT TO DATE BEC I KNOW THEM TOO WELL AND DONT WANT TO DATE WITH MY FRIEND'S MAN U KNOW WHAT I MEAN THATS NOT MY STYLE .... PLS HELP ME OUT !!! :ty:
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BIGQUEEN64.....good luck in your quest to find Mr Right. Just make sure his first name is not....Always! :lol:
 
as others had said, mr. right or mrs. right is just a myth. i had been looked for a ms. right for a few years and realized that it is just a myth.

bearbeauty said it best -- mrs. good enough is more than enough for me. soulmate? ha. it only happens in hollywood movies.
 
Gamer12 said:
as others had said, mr. right or mrs. right is just a myth. i had been looked for a ms. right for a few years and realized that it is just a myth.

bearbeauty said it best -- mrs. good enough is more than enough for me. soulmate? ha. it only happens in hollywood movies.
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I don't believe in soulmate.
 
Maria,

I'm curious, why don't you believe in soulmate? I know I have...in my husband. I can't imagine being with a better guy than him to be married to. I would like u to clarify what "soulmate" means to you.
 
PePe LePew said:
Column on 'Mr.Right' still able to hit home after all these years

Dear Ann: Several years ago, you printed a column telling women how to find "Mr.Right." After I went through a messy divorce, I gave that column to my daughter so she wouldn't make the same mistake her parents did.

I'am happy to tell you she handed that column to me last Sunday just before I walked her down the aisle at her wedding. She had written on it, "Dad, thank you for this list. I will not be needing it anymore. I love you." Please print that column again for those who may have missed it.-Proud Dad in Dunedin, Fla.

Dear Dad: I'm glad to know my column helped your daughter find the man of her dreams, and I'am happy to print it again.

Dear Ann: With all the columns you've written about finding "Mr.Right," many women still don't understand the basics. I've compiled a list of guidelines that will be extremely helpful if followed correctly. I hope you will print it. It could change alot of lives.-Merrillville, Ind.

Dear merrillville: You have made some valid points. A reader from Quebec sent a similar list two years ago. Both lists provide excellent suggestions for husband hunting. Here is an edited version of A Perfect Guide for Husband Hunting:

1. You probably won't find Mr. Right in a bar, or on the internet. Try grocery stores, church, where you work or through a friend.

2. If he tells you he is married or engaged or has a girlfriend, he's separated or his wife or girlfriend or fiancee doesn't understand him- he has TROUBLE stamped on his forehead.

3. If he tries to move in with you or wants to borrow money, be careful. He may be a con artist.

4. If his family doesn't like him and avoids him, maybe you should too. They know him better than you do.

5. Check out his car or his bedroom. It should be clean, serviceable and insured.

6. If he has children, decide if you want to marry him or be his girlfriend or engaged to him, too, because that is the way it will be. And be aware that they are direct link to his ex-wife or ex-girlfriends.

7. You don't need a man to be a complete woman. Choose the man- don't let him choose you. Be selective. No one has the power to make you happier than the right man or more miserable than the wrong one.

8. Find someone who laughs at the same things you laugh at. A shared sense of humor will make the good times better and the bad times less difficult.

9. If you want several children and plan to stay home and raise them, choose a man whose skills and education will put him in a high salary category.

10. If you want a career, don't marry a man who hates his job. He will resent the time and attention you give to yours.

11. Two red flags: Does he have a short fuse and a hot temper ? Is he hung up on his mother ? These are two negatives that inevitably get worse after marriage. Both can be disastrous.

12. Don't get married because you are afraid to be alone. No wife is more alone than one whose husband pays no attention to her.

13. No matter how wonderful his other qualities may be, do not marry a man who has threatened, hit or humilated you. In fact, don't go out with him a second time. Such a man is hazardous to your emotional and physical health and should be avoided like the plague.

14. Pay attention to how he treats his mother. Chances are good that he will treat you the same way.
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i wish i saw that list before... my soon to be ex hubby is like that... gosh! im an idiot... oh yeah no such thing as mr.right.. sigh...
 
Peachy Lady said:
Maria,

I'm curious, why don't you believe in soulmate? I know I have...in my husband. I can't imagine being with a better guy than him to be married to. I would like u to clarify what "soulmate" means to you.
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Peachy Lady,

I am glad you ask. :)
I know what " soulmate " means, but still I don't believe in soulmate. It is New Age concept.
 
1. You probably won't find Mr. Right in a bar, or on the internet. Try grocery stores, church, where you work or through a friend.

That is a lie. My cousin married a man she met at the bar and they are celebrating their 10th anniversary.

2. If he tells you he is married or engaged or has a girlfriend, he's separated or his wife or girlfriend or fiancee doesn't understand him- he has TROUBLE stamped on his forehead.

That is a lie. I met a Handsome man and he said he doesn't have a girlfriend... but I found out his personality is ugly.

3. If he tries to move in with you or wants to borrow money, be careful. He may be a con artist.

Stedman, Oprah's boyfriend isn't a con artist.

4. If his family doesn't like him and avoids him, maybe you should too. They know him better than you do.

Jeffrey Dahmer's family liked him.

5. Check out his car or his bedroom. It should be clean, serviceable and insured.

I should be a neat freak and golddigger?

6. If he has children, decide if you want to marry him or be his girlfriend or engaged to him, too, because that is the way it will be. And be aware that they are direct link to his ex-wife or ex-girlfriends.

what?

7. You don't need a man to be a complete woman. Choose the man- don't let him choose you. Be selective. No one has the power to make you happier than the right man or more miserable than the wrong one.

Yes women do need a man. That is why we women are so unhappy now.

8. Find someone who laughs at the same things you laugh at. A shared sense of humor will make the good times better and the bad times less difficult.

Don't have to laughs at the same things you laugh at. If that person
think that is funny, let him laugh.

9. If you want several children and plan to stay home and raise them, choose a man whose skills and education will put him in a high salary category.

what if he dies suddenly? And you stuck with children and no job?

10. If you want a career, don't marry a man who hates his job. He will resent the time and attention you give to yours.

why not tell the man to get a job he will like?

11. Two red flags: Does he have a short fuse and a hot temper ? Is he hung up on his mother ? These are two negatives that inevitably get worse after marriage. Both can be disastrous.

My mom married a sweet man (no hot temper) and after that they argue anyway.

12. Don't get married because you are afraid to be alone. No wife is more alone than one whose husband pays no attention to her.

Can always find a husband who will pay attention to her.

13. No matter how wonderful his other qualities may be, do not marry a man who has threatened, hit or humilated you. In fact, don't go out with him a second time. Such a man is hazardous to your emotional and physical health and should be avoided like the plague.

everybody are like that, sometimes.

14. Pay attention to how he treats his mother. Chances are good that he will treat you the same way.

Mike Tyson treated his mother so nice.
 
Gamer12 said:
as others had said, mr. right or mrs. right is just a myth. i had been looked for a ms. right for a few years and realized that it is just a myth.

bearbeauty said it best -- mrs. good enough is more than enough for me. soulmate? ha. it only happens in hollywood movies.
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it won't happen when you are searching for it, it comes when you at least unexpect it smile...
 
Freaky Cat said:
i wish i saw that list before... my soon to be ex hubby is like that... gosh! im an idiot... oh yeah no such thing as mr.right.. sigh...
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Hun, you aren't an idiot he is!!!! we all make mistakes smile!!!!

Make sure you get everything from him since he has to help you out such as health benefits and so on... get as much you can out of him for what he did to you...
 
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