im plans going London,England on March 2010

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If I were you, I would ask for a webcam chat, trace down where he really lives and check on criminal history as well and everything. Please don't risk yourself that way, remember the nigerian scammer you went thru before? Anyone can fake you, anywhere no matter what.

Have you ever seen picture of him? You know how your mom is concerned about your safety and is worried about you. How can you fall in love with someone that you haven't seen in pictures or on webcam, etc? Did you know that you can trace anyone thru email?

my 3 ex-boyfriend had problems with laws and begged for send money before James and i dont like scams!! I told police about that man should throw jail ASAP!! my mom told me dont do that again ever..

James have family and friends who lives in London,England but his family is friendly so James never send me money nor i never send him money but he had jobs thankness godness.
 
Sara, let me ask you this.

Several months ago, I believe back in February earlier this year or last year (I cannot remember), you said in the forum, that your boyfriend, James was coming to see you in Arkansas. Did he ever travel to Arkansas to meet you?
 
Sara, let me ask you this.

Several months ago, I believe back in February earlier this year or last year (I cannot remember), you said in the forum, that your boyfriend, James was coming to see you in Arkansas. Did he ever travel to Arkansas to meet you?

he makes change his mind i cant blame him i would intive him but he cant leave jobs i understand from James what he wanted.
 
I really wish I can talk to this James and ask him some hard questions. :hmm:
 
he makes change his mind i cant blame him i would intive him but he cant leave jobs i understand from James what he wanted.
Aw Sara I understand. :(

Do you not ever feel lonely, not having a boyfriend in your arms? You know, like, kissing, cuddling, and say "I love you." etc.
 
I really wish I can talk to this James and ask him some hard questions. :hmm:

Yeah, something is not right about this... so let's just hope she does not fall into another similar fate again. :(

Sara, how long have you known him online since? if you don't mind me asking...
 
Sara, if I PM you my email address will you ask your mom to contact me?
 
Sara.. How can you are imaginary him as boyfriend without a picture? :hmm:

Tell him... Please send e.mail picture :)
 
that sweet to intives him but i dont think he will join AD dues he work at warehouse.

he does have time send e.mail so I am sure that he can have a time write one post here? :fingersx:
 
Yeah, something is not right about this... so let's just hope she does not fall into another similar fate again. :(

Sara, how long have you known him online since? if you don't mind me asking...

I am with you about this. I just know she will fall through the same fate. She mentions her weight struggle hence the self-esteem issues.

Sara, your family does care for you. Sometimes we get sick and tired of our mothers BUT our mothers gave birth to us. Our mothers do and always will care for us no matter what. To your mom, you are her baby. She is probably frightened at the idea of you chatting with a stranger across the world.

If you are lonely Sara, please remember we are always here at AD.

I know it is hard to be single and alone. Brian said the same thing.

I remember being single and would miss cuddling, kissing and signing :ily: and he signs :ily: back to you. Remember you don't want to be at another place alone and find out James is totally different and he could be tricking you into something.

Maybe he can try to rape you? Rob you and you could lose your passport? How do you think you can get back home with no money? That's hard and imagine what your mom is thinking.. why do you think she does not want you to go?

I know you want to be independent and you should be! Be careful and be wise. Don't be foolish with your independence because if you are foolish, people can't trust you and will keep treating you like a little girl. You don't want that Sara, you want to be treated like an adult. So make good decisions not bad decisions.
 
If she takes an ADer with her she could be putting that person at risk also :(
 
If she takes a ADer with her she could be putting that person at risk also :(

Yes and keep in mind that ASL is Sara's first language so I'm thinking of doing a video and posting it here.

She has good intentions and I can see she is confused.

Hang in there Sara. :hug:

We care for you. :ily:
 
Yes and keep in mind that ASL is Sara's first language so I'm thinking of doing a video and posting it here.

She has good intentions and I can see she is confused.

Hang in there Sara. :hug:

We care for you. :ily:

I think that would a great idea for you to make a video and post it here to clear it up for everyone and sara..
 
Sara,

Does James know that you won't bring money to London?

Are you two serious about each other? Have you two discussed marriage?

Seriously, if a man really cares for a woman, he will do whatever he can to visit her. He will save up vacation days for time off. He will eat noodle soup for a year to save money. He will take the most uncomfortable transportation for the cheapest travel.

A man is actually proud to show how much he loves a woman by proving his sacrifices for her.

A man will do everything he can for the comfort and safety of the woman he loves. He doesn't want her to take dangerous chances.

I hope for your sake that James is the man I described.
 
Sara,

Does James know that you won't bring money to London?

Are you two serious about each other? Have you two discussed marriage?

Seriously, if a man really cares for a woman, he will do whatever he can to visit her. He will save up vacation days for time off. He will eat noodle soup for a year to save money. He will take the most uncomfortable transportation for the cheapest travel.

A man is actually proud to show how much he loves a woman by proving his sacrifices for her.

A man will do everything he can for the comfort and safety of the woman he loves. He doesn't want her to take dangerous chances.

I hope for your sake that James is the man I described.

It is unfortunate that James is not all what you described.

We can see how hard we are trying to explain to her because hubby and I went through so much sacrifices and it was because we love each other.

We webcammed/chatted and we refused the "online" dating until we met in person.

Sara I hope you take our dear Reba's wise words to heart.
 
he not deaf but he told me on e-mail messages says his friend also deaf but his friend taught James sign languages.

im hope i would get pics of him somedays..

Sara, its very important you get his pic or even webcam each other. How long have you known him?

I just feel something is not right. You have a lot of support here on Alldeaf not to go to London alone. Everyone is looking after your safety and don't want anything bad to happen to you. I sure, hope you would take our advice. So many members have concern for you. Please think twice what you are doing.
 
Plan to go there without seen picture or video? How do you know it's that person?

I refuse accept it.

I have pick up several people here at AD and know what they look like and put my gut to trust to meet in person.
 
Sara,

Does James know that you won't bring money to London?

Are you two serious about each other? Have you two discussed marriage?

Seriously, if a man really cares for a woman, he will do whatever he can to visit her. He will save up vacation days for time off. He will eat noodle soup for a year to save money. He will take the most uncomfortable transportation for the cheapest travel.

A man is actually proud to show how much he loves a woman by proving his sacrifices for her.

A man will do everything he can for the comfort and safety of the woman he loves. He doesn't want her to take dangerous chances.

I hope for your sake that James is the man I described.

I DO!

James and me been e-mail lots and know each other and i told him about future i told him on e-mail messages talk about get marriages and children on their own.
 
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