Yep prove that. I don't have a bad attitude. Every time I'm happy I easily get a bad result from everything because everything in my life is way overestimated. So if I underestimate my life, I wouldn't be at uni at all. How surprised I am, nearly finished on 4 year degree and even going to US by a job acceptance. I did not expected that because I always get discriminated by my hearing loss.
All of your problems always come down to this. Maybe it's time to stop blaming the hearing loss. Find deaf groups, but then you blame your autism. Yes, these things make life hard, but not insurmountable.
Same for social environment. Uni social life for me is shitty as hell. I'm poor and can't make friends which I define friends as talking with, hang out with and 'include with'. Not fake Facebook friends like that or people pretend to accept you during at uni classes.
People may be polite, but that does not mean they are pretending to be your friend. Most relationships just never go that deep. I have a lot of "friends," that are merely very friendly aquaintances. We may really like each other, but there is only so much time in life. Even if they were interested in more, you really come off wrong. This could be part aspergers, but is very heavily influenced by your incredibly negative personality. Thinking everyone is "pretending" to be your friend and "trying to hurt you" or out to get you in some way for sex or money, is a bit paranoid. There are a lot of those people, more than we can imagine, but it is unlikely that is every single person you meet.
I had enough with this shitty life. More of expecting to have fun and awesome time in US but until I found out Park City is a party place, people going to live as party 24/7 houses and stuff very similar to college. Dirty houses makes me feel death. Now what!? Not again, leaving uni for place very similar to college lifestyle!? Jesus hell christ! When life gets easier for me since it has been way too hard all the time. Like it is hard to get a person to mention and include you to hang out without being faking and pretending? Now I am expecting to have very extremely hard time in America because of party places. On our facebook group page for the workers of the resort for this season, their facebook profiles have extremely large amounts of friends and heavy photo tags. Like over 1000 a piece. Im not comfortable with that because it define their life as party animals and people accept them easily.
This seems judgmental- Many different people drink to varying degrees, for various reasons, and with friends. Some go out to get drunk and laid, some just have a few drinks with friends while chilling at a restaurant, some to celebrate, some to grieve. Yeah, a lot of people drink, but not all of them are the same. You easily assume the worst of others. You hate stereotyping, but you stereotype others. I was a little offended on a previous post about which "type" of girl you should go for. I am a geek- I game with three other female geeks. Two love sports, one is a chemist working on her doctorate, baseball player and occasional partier. Another is studying social work, teaches childrens Sunday school and played soccer. And another is uber feminine- pink, frills, perfect hair. None of us are a "type." (But I recognize I may be oversensitive to this from the number of guys who see me as a walking pair of boobs, so I said nothing.) You are always misunderstood, but you never think maybe you misunderstand. There are lots of reasons people have various friends on Facebook and it is shallow to judge others on this. You are judging them, assuming they are judging you also. Try thinking from someone elses perspective. Or just listening to them as individuals.
Now how I am going to feel, sitting at a house in middle of party while being sober and very fit makes me feel so uncomfortable. I can't make friends like that because they are drunk same here at colleges on campus as well. Everywhere I go places where people drinks including my family go to clubs and pubs. I never feel comfortable and couldn't make friends and even girlfriends. Same shit happens here at uni for 4 solid years. My future looks so bleak and boring as hell.
How does everyone else feel with you sitting there judging them? You do not strike me as a person adept at hiding your disdain.
Looks like I am going to be lonely traveller, world record bestest innocent virgin and that shit happens in movies and that.