I have some rant

Southern said:
Yes you are correct they do get it from men, also other women via iv drug use and through accedental contact with blood that is tainted. Of course Empress you missed the entire point of my comment. Did you only read the last few sentences? The point is that it is not a subject to make light of. And it is not something to take out on men, as though men just have it and purposely give it to women, (before you say it there are men who do that, just as there are women who do as well). And guess what, a lot of men get it from women, it goes both ways. The point is that it is a horrible disease that many suffer while dying with. It is extremely painful to see some one you love drift slowly, agonisingly away from you and you can do nothing to help them. Man or woman it is awful. If some one were to make light of your condition you would not like it. Also i suppose you claim to be a christian. Where is your compassion that he showed? You say you know what it feels like to be riticuled for a health issue, well shouldn't you show that you know by not doing the samething? Just a thought.
I'm not trying to make you angry or make you feel put in a corner. I just would like for you to see that this kind of thing is not something to giggle over, you of all people who has said you have dealt with people doing that to you, should know better.
Pacman i am sorry for getting off subject as yours was an important one. i won't speak on this subject further.
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I do read everything... I just don't feel like typing.

If my dad hasn't drugs and sleeping with other women and giving
my mom gonorhea, then I wouldn't be born with disfigure face.

Yeah I blame my dad (a man) for my disease.

Nobody have compassion for me, why should I show any compassion?
 
The*Empress said:
I do read everything... I just don't feel like typing.

If my dad hasn't drugs and sleeping with other women and giving
my mom gonorhea, then I wouldn't be born with disfigure face.

Yeah I blame my dad (a man) for my disease.

Nobody have compassion for me, why should I show any compassion?
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The*Empress,

Do you actually believe the things you say, or do you say them for shock value? Most of the time when I read what you write, I think to myself, "Surely, she can't be serious!"

Live your life the way you want, I suppose... but if you plan to go through your life blaming all men for the transgressions of your father, or blaming all people for the ignorant actions of the people that have ridiculed you... you're bound to live a very sad and lonely life. It's also not fair to other people, nor to yourself, to do that.

I honestly don't say this to be mean... but if you seriously have such deep-seated animosity issues (and/or low self-esteem), I highly recommend finding a good therapist to work through some of your issues. Lashing out at the rest of the world isn't going to make you feel any better, in the long run.
 
InTheGenes said:
The*Empress,

Do you actually believe the things you say, or do you say them for shock value? Most of the time when I read what you write, I think to myself, "Surely, she can't be serious!"

Live your life the way you want, I suppose... but if you plan to go through your life blaming all men for the transgressions of your father, or blaming all people for the ignorant actions of the people that have ridiculed you... you're bound to live a very sad and lonely life. It's also not fair to other people, nor to yourself, to do that.

I honestly don't say this to be mean... but if you seriously have such deep-seated animosity issues (and/or low self-esteem), I highly recommend finding a good therapist to work through some of your issues. Lashing out at the rest of the world isn't going to make you feel any better, in the long run.
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Honestly I always thought it was for shock value but I agree with u Inthegenes about some points. If any of these issues are for real, then the AD forum is not the right place to vent deep-rooted emotions. That is why therapists must get a license for their jobs. :)
 
Empress, Heath and Texan Guy need get along with homosexual and does nothing to wrong.
 
Well pacman that seems to be the issue doesn't it. They don't like us, but they come into "the closet" forum of their own choice. If they don't like us and don't want to learn anything why come? If you don't want to have your mind opened to other possibilities then why even come over to this side. They don't make sense.
 
Southern said:
Well pacman that seems to be the issue doesn't it. They don't like us, but they come into "the closet" forum of their own choice. If they don't like us and don't want to learn anything why come? If you don't want to have your mind opened to other possibilities then why even come over to this side. They don't make sense.
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Yup, 3 members are post in this forum and bash on homosexual and that's not nice.
 
The*Empress said:
I do read everything... I just don't feel like typing.

If my dad hasn't drugs and sleeping with other women and giving
my mom gonorhea, then I wouldn't be born with disfigure face.

Yeah I blame my dad (a man) for my disease.

Nobody have compassion for me, why should I show any compassion?
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Are you enjoy to mess my thread up? You have no respect. :roll:
 
Empress.... you are a fucking idiot... STRAIGHT people does get HIV or AIDS.. it is not only GAYS OR LESBIANS.... you need to read more.. about hiv or aids... you nees to start respecting gays and lesbiand.. in other thread you were thinking about becoming a lesbian...
 
Southern said:
Well pacman that seems to be the issue doesn't it. They don't like us, but they come into "the closet" forum of their own choice. If they don't like us and don't want to learn anything why come? If you don't want to have your mind opened to other possibilities then why even come over to this side. They don't make sense.
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I understand how you feel... be happy for who you are... lots of friends of mine are lesbians and gays and i love them ...
 
It is NOT your problem of who you are. The most important is you and your choice! It is your life! Your life is very cherished. It is your grandmother's problem -- Same for me .. My family can't do anything otherwise we have gotten along well. They respect my choice. Some are open minded which is good. It is not about getting diseases etc etc ..Educating the Safe Sex is very important. Some close minded people who don't understand this need to be more careful of what they have to say here.

Skyporkie ~~~ you are so wonderful! ... you've made an excellent point on HIV/AIDS Yes... Straight people do get them too.
 
Dino65 said:
It is NOT your problem of who you are. The most important is you and your choice! It is your life! Your life is very cherished. It is your grandmother's problem -- Same for me .. My family can't do anything otherwise we have gotten along well. They respect my choice. Some are open minded which is good. It is not about getting diseases etc etc ..Educating the Safe Sex is very important. Some close minded people who don't understand this need to be more careful of what they have to say here.

Skyporkie ~~~ you are so wonderful! ... you've made an excellent point on HIV/AIDS Yes... Straight people do get them too.
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Thank you very much....
 
Empress..... I am tired of you judging all lesbians and gays.. you have no right to do that.... You have to judge yourself first before you have to judge anyone else.. you are not PERFECT... I am not perfect either...
 
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