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When back in August, I changed my sexual from gay into straight because I got bad pressure with my grandma that she made bunch of whining about me, also I have argue with her alot and said "GAY ISN'T GOOD AND ITS WRONG" and "GOD HATES GAY" then doing again... that fucking sick to see that and my life is much better when I'm being gay or even bisexual. I don't understand that grandma gave me an shit on me and doesn't make any sense.

Now, I broke up with girlfriend for some reason because don't like her personal, also I feel that need changing back to gay or bisexual again to make feel better but used had 2 boyfriend and grandma is used dissed at one of my boyfriend then he ended up to broke up and I found other one that won't get him to meet grandma. I'm real pissed off at her and called her again then started argue again, that SOOOO terrible. Now, I made right decision to being gay, mostly like to be bisexual and curently to looking for new boyfriend but grandma can't control on me anymore.

I'm happy with my personal, even changed back to normal.

Do you have experience with families that who make bad thing on homosexual?
 
i'm sorry u been through, u know old times don't have that much of issue like nowaday, and, most are old fashion way in old folks. So hopefully someday she will accept who u re. I'm sorry to hear, but take some patience and strongly that who fact u are and as long ur happy where u re. Stick that way!.
 
SherryCherish said:
i'm sorry u been through, u know old times don't have that much of issue like nowaday, and, most are old fashion way in old folks. So hopefully someday she will accept who u re. I'm sorry to hear, but take some patience and strongly that who fact u are and as long ur happy where u re. Stick that way!.
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Yup... I understand about some people have old fashion, also thanks for helping me.
 
My Grandmom would slap me til I am down on the floor,

I wouldn't dare to show up with a lesbian girlfriend in front of Grandma...

No way.
 
I'm sorry to hear about your grandma, she isn't one of those people who would keep an open mind and show respect. She has no power of control over what you should do with your life, just follow your heart. ;)

My family always believe in the importance of keeping an open mind how homosexuals live their life. Even my step-mother has friends who are lesbians and they're teachers. It's very important that people should keep an open mind and show respect along all people in all races. If Christians dislike homosexuals because what's being said in the bible, it's always best to remain the negatives to themselves, because we are sinners too we are no differences from homosexuals, that's for the matter of fact. ;)
 
Cheri... you are right... most of gays and lesbians are born that way.. I have nothing against them.... most of them are my friends...I do believe in gay marriages...
 
Cheri said:
I'm sorry to hear about your grandma, she isn't one of those people who would keep an open mind and show respect. She has no power of control over what you should do with your life, just follow your heart. ;)

My family always believe in the importance of keeping an open mind how homosexuals live their life. Even my step-mother has friends who are lesbians and they're teachers. It's very important that people should keep an open mind and show respect along all people in all races. If Christians dislike homosexuals because what's being said in the bible, it's always best to remain the negatives to themselves, because we are sinners too we are no differences from homosexuals, that's for the matter of fact. ;)
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Yup... that right about her that have no power.

Homosexual does nothing with bible since many people don't believe about them.
 
SxyPorkie said:
Cheri... you are right... most of gays and lesbians are born that way.. I have nothing against them.... most of them are my friends...I do believe in gay marriages...
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That's great about you got gay/lesbian friend. :)
 
Pacman said:
When back in August,

Now, I broke up with girlfriend for some reason because don't like her personal, also I feel that need changing back to gay or bisexual again to make feel better but used had 2 boyfriend and grandma is used dissed at one of my boyfriend then he ended up to broke up and I found other one that won't get him to meet on homosexual?
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Do your girlfriend know you're gay or bisexual? You didn't have sex with
her right?
I don't want MEN, because ewww they might be gay or bisexual...
and might give me HIV or something...

Maybe I should be a Lesbian... that safe there.:giggle:
 
The*Empress said:
Do your girlfriend know you're gay or bisexual? You didn't have sex with
her right?
I don't want MEN, because ewww they might be gay or bisexual...
and might give me HIV or something...

Maybe I should be a Lesbian... that safe there.:giggle:
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HMMMM Safe? I wouldnt count on that cuz even Lesbains could have had sexual encounters with men and they give u their men germs to u? eeewww :giggle:
 
Hey Pacman...good thing u stood up to your Grandma for believing in yourself.

Nobody in my family are gay so I am not sure how they would react but I have a feeling that they would be shocked at first but eventually accept it.
 
The*Empress said:
Do your girlfriend know you're gay or bisexual? You didn't have sex with
her right?
I don't want MEN, because ewww they might be gay or bisexual...
and might give me HIV or something...

Maybe I should be a Lesbian... that safe there.:giggle:
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Nah, I haven't sex with my girlfriend and she does know about me.

Don't take concern about men but some of them that can be trust to you.
 
shel90 said:
Hey Pacman...good thing u stood up to your Grandma for believing in yourself.

Nobody in my family are gay so I am not sure how they would react but I have a feeling that they would be shocked at first but eventually accept it.
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Yea, there's few of my family members are gay.

Now, my grandma is gulped after show something about homosexual is right for us.
 
Well i undy how you feel definately. My dad doesn't know that i am gay. If he did, he would disown me. It would cause a huge problem in my family. I don't tell him for my family's sake. He disowned my brother who was gay too. He took him back before my brother died though. She already knows you are gay, she is older so you have to realize she is set in her ways, she won't change. Yes the bible does say it is wrong to be gay. It is wrong to have sex before marrage and if you were straight i am sure you would do that, and she would have a problem with it. I grew up very religous. When i was 19 was when i realized i am gay. The boyfriend i had growing up for some reason didn't make me think i was, LOL serious denial!! Well when i realized i am gay, i didn't want to be. I was suicidal, my wrists would literally itch at night wanting to be cut. I got through it though, that was 8 years ago. Once i realized i am gay and have been my whole life. That i am this unhappy because i am fighting it. I need to just be who i am, GAY! once that happened i became a much happier person. You are who you are, and while i don't tell my dad who i am, i don't live my life for him either. If he finds out, he finds out. I am who i am and i am not going to try to be some one i am not. You will be so unhappy trying to live as some one else. Be yourself! I know it is hard to have some one you love feel that way to you but condider the source and how she was raised. Just be as loving to her and respectful as you can, Love concurs all and if you show that no matter how she treats you or what she says that you love her and respect her, she will soften. Just be patient it will take a while.
 
Pacman -- just be urself and be happy who u are -- it doesnt matter if u r gay, bi or straight -- dont worry abt ur grandma -- sounds like shes very much set in her old fashioned ways
 
Empress you say in other threads you don't want people to be mean to you then you say f'ed up things like your little AIDS comment. You obviously have never known anyone to die of that disease, i had to watch my brother slowly and painfully die of that. It is NOT a joke. It is NOT something to make light of. it is NOT something to have a little giggle comment after. You say because of what you have your face is ugly and people treat you mean, yet you show no sympathy for others and what they go through. Maybe people are mean to you because of your personality is such that they are responding to you how you treat them. You obviously dislike gays so why come in to this part of AD and spread your bigotry out over and over again? You make no sense. And just to inform you to assist in helping you be not as ignorant as you are, Women are the highest rate of new HIV cases straight WOMEN. Not gay men, STRAIGHT WOMEN. That would be you. It's better to keep your mouth shut on a subject you don't know and have people wonder if you are a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt, which you regularly do. End rant!
 
Yes you are correct they do get it from men, also other women via iv drug use and through accedental contact with blood that is tainted. Of course Empress you missed the entire point of my comment. Did you only read the last few sentences? The point is that it is not a subject to make light of. And it is not something to take out on men, as though men just have it and purposely give it to women, (before you say it there are men who do that, just as there are women who do as well). And guess what, a lot of men get it from women, it goes both ways. The point is that it is a horrible disease that many suffer while dying with. It is extremely painful to see some one you love drift slowly, agonisingly away from you and you can do nothing to help them. Man or woman it is awful. If some one were to make light of your condition you would not like it. Also i suppose you claim to be a christian. Where is your compassion that he showed? You say you know what it feels like to be riticuled for a health issue, well shouldn't you show that you know by not doing the samething? Just a thought.
I'm not trying to make you angry or make you feel put in a corner. I just would like for you to see that this kind of thing is not something to giggle over, you of all people who has said you have dealt with people doing that to you, should know better.
Pacman i am sorry for getting off subject as yours was an important one. i won't speak on this subject further.
 
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