Candy,
Sorry to hear you are having to deal with Menieres and the fluctuating hearing. I wish no one had to go through the fluctuating part of the hearing loss that Menieres brings out. I really hope you don't have the vertigo to go along with it.
I know all to well the total frustration you are probably going through not being able to rely on your hearing. Having a loss is OK. Having it come and go on its own will is something totally different. During the beginning of my Menieres battle, my heairng would fluctuate every couple days. At the end the hearing would fluctuate by the minute and no one could understand why I could start a conversation and not be able to end it because I just couldn't hear. Getting new programs for my HA were comforting but knowing that they would be short lived was always the disappointment.
I can say that the tinnitus from Menieres is still in my head after 2.5 years of a CI in one ear and 6 months in the other ear. It is a LOT better than it was but more importantly my ability to hear and understand is a thousand times better and I don't have the fluctuating any more. It has become dependable again.
I know you will make the right decission for yourself. When I was weighing the options of a CI, I really tried to find those "bad" stories and didn't come up with much. I have seen a few on this site but again, not many.
As far as Menieres. Have you been to Menieres.org?
Hope you are able to find some relief soon.
Steve