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serenity now. the love you idolized is just an hollywood love. "love will find you". what the fuck? it's like "money will come to you when you sit back and do nothing" crap. it's not how it works. you have to work your ass off to get what you want. or what you need.
Talkin' about " love will find you " -- we don't think alike. We don't view the same. I don't think of " in movies and T.V. shows " like you do. I think of somethin' else... through my own experiences, of course. Experiences don't sit back and do nothin'. It requires communication through action. Okay ?
my attitude? why thank you. ever since i understand the game and i changed my attitude from "mr. nice guy"[tm] to jerk, being single is just an old, foggy memory. of course men do play the game but only because women we are attracted to are playing the game too. what choice do we have? either way, stay single and sleep in a cold bed or to be with a woman and sleep in a warm bed. i don't blame women. i never did. i blame the game itself.
Well, for your information... some women don't like men who are jerks. I am one of them. I don't like a jerk guy. It's all about " maturity ". Of course, there's NO Mr. " Right " Guy or Miss " Right " Woman. Gee, there's none of that, really -- every person has their own flaw. We have to expect that, because no one is perfect.
If, you are really genuine without playin' games - then, your love will show true.
heh heh. again, that's an hollywood talk. sorry i don't buy it any more. i had tried that for several years and nothing happens. single and cold bed. until i met a happily married man who understand the world much younger than i am. with his advices and his wisdom, my life gets much, much better when i changed my attitude to jerk. the world where "nice guys finish last" you spoke of is gone and it's finished. it's over. look at president bush. he's the biggest jerk and people love him. look at howard stern. he's a jerk and many women want to fuck him. and so on and on.
President Bush ? Ha ! I don't love him...noooo thanks ! Pssh It doesn't mean that I hate him. Yeah, yeah I understand what you mean, but still it had to do with " maturity ".
if you want to have a lovemate, you have to make a move. will this car starts without a key? well, duh, of course not.
Well, a big IF I want to have a lovemate.... WHO will control this car before puttin' a key in ? Him or her .... You be the judge. I don't want either one of them to be a controller ... I think it is too much. It's why I said love will find you ... meanin' about " maturity " - not stupidity.
