I am loosing my hope, pls. help me..

Paul321

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Hey friends. I heard lots of people found their soul mates through online dating sites. So I also tried few in the hope of meeting that special one. But I guess I am not so lucky.

These sites mainly focus on international dating. I had a long-distance relationship in the past. Oh God! It’s difficult to maintain such relationships. So obviously, I don’t want to commit the same mistake again.

Can somebody tell me some good online dating site where I can get to know people who don’t live far away? I am losing hope. Plzzzzz help me.
 
Did u try meeting people at social events or community events?

I used to use a deaf dating site but instead of finding a soul mate, I found friends. Met my current hubby thru friends when I wasnt looking. Point is, the online dating service didnt work for me.

Good luck!
 
Did u try meeting people at social events or community events?

I used to use a deaf dating site but instead of finding a soul mate, I found friends. Met my current hubby thru friends when I wasnt looking. Point is, the online dating service didnt work for me.

Good luck!

I agree. The net helps us with friendships but relationships require seeing one another in person.
 
try deafsinglesconnection.com (DSC) Deafs.com umm there's tons out there.. maybe if you go to tagdeaf and create your profile to show who you are but it's not really a dating site... I believe it should be friends for a start not jumping into a relationship too fast... time is patient.. smile..

Hang in there... it happens when you at least expected.
 
yeah its hard to find the right person.. just dont give up.. the right time will happen for you.. ok.. ;)
 
Paul321

Believe me or not ....I've been through online datin' and it sucks, it's hard to see the person's behavior on the online and we can't see them behind the wall and the other side of the Mountains...

Truly a woman or a man can be such a charmin' over on the online, once you meet them in person, it's all hail broke loose, they ain't the same once you knew on the online, they changed to somebody else...

The Internet and the Real World are not the same, that's the truth...

Last word is that many people are two-faced on the online, I do not trusted anyone periodly over on the online...

He/she may tells you what they are when they are not, first of all I moved in with a guy I met over the internet, big mistake I've made, it was hell between me and him, it's a long story...

I wish I had meet somebody in my area, not on the online!

It's your choice!


P.S. It's best to start out with friendship, never rush into a relationship too fast, true love wait and true love is slow, it's real love to starts as a friend before you starts havin' a relationship, also when rushin' into a relationship is called Infatuation, means goin' too far too fast to fall in love with someone you don't know too well, includin' the behavior...

Take it slow and true love will shows!


Infatuation means not true love when rushin'....winks!




Hey friends. I heard lots of people found their soul mates through online dating sites. So I also tried few in the hope of meeting that special one. But I guess I am not so lucky.

These sites mainly focus on international dating. I had a long-distance relationship in the past. Oh God! It’s difficult to maintain such relationships. So obviously, I don’t want to commit the same mistake again.

Can somebody tell me some good online dating site where I can get to know people who don’t live far away? I am losing hope. Plzzzzz help me.
 
Love will find you. :)

that only works in movies and t.v. shows.

paul -- based on my experiences with women, don't ever get desperate. women can smell desperation from a few hundred miles away. even via online. you may not like my suggestion but if you want to get a date, be an asshole or jerk. believe it or not, it works. every time. don't ask me why but for some bizarre reason, young women prefer assholes or jerks over "nice guys"[tm]. you have to read this composition by jason conway, a student of university of wisc river falls. dwell upon jason's final line -- Remember that women can smell desperation. The best way to find a girl is to be “the asshole” and pretend you do not care.

it's so true. this is a game women generally play with us, men. yeah it's not fair or ethical but that's a game they play. like it or not, we have to play along with theirs. that's how i get my other half.
 
Gamer12,

If my husband was being a jerk or an asshole when he met me, he would not have a chance with me. Please do not assume that all women prefer men to be a jerk or asshole to hook them up. Each woman is different. I preferred a man who show me respect, have good communication skill (I don't mean must speak well, but keep in touch with me thru communicating), trust and love. My husband won my heart cuz he met what I required in a good man. I've been happily married to him and still am today.
 
women i spoke of are 18-35 year old types. there's a behavioristic pattern among them and their conditioned cyclic behavior tells me otherwise. no offense intended nor doubt your experience but based on the exposition of your social knowledge, you sound like you're older [and wiser].

Please do not assume that all women prefer men to be a jerk or asshole to hook them up.

well, if men aren't rich, handsome or famous, jerk\asshole is the next best strategy to win a date with single 18-35 year old woman. i used to have a thought like you had disclosed in your statement but my naivete and innocence shattered by their repeated rejection. the lesson i learned from the rejections i received is that "nice guys"[tm] philosophy is so medieval. which is why there are many self-help books advising men to abandon the "mr. nice guy"[tm] philosophy wholly and adopt the holy scripture of jerkness. i had always thought that something was wrong with women who rejected me until i understand the game and its rules. once i do, the concept of singleness and cold bed is foreign to me.

in all honesty, i have yet find a young [18-35 years old] woman who would go for "mr. nice guy"[tm]. if i ever meet such a woman, i'll stop advising men to adopt the philosophy of "mr. jerk". if you're different than these women i illustrated above, and then you're in an infinitesimal minority.
 
I must agree with you!

FYI Guys are much like dogs, and ladies are much like cats,

If you, guys act truly a dog, you gonna scare alot of cats! I already scared couple cats to hell.

I would suggest you to forget acting like a dog! I can bet you, that you will be magnet to cats!

I'm done with dating scene!

*DHB*
O|||||||O

Love will find you. :)
 
I don't believe in online dating sites. I rather in person. :)
 
that only works in movies and t.v. shows.

You don't really know that. If, you are talkin' about " in movies and T.V. shows " which is means that love is not real " in movies and T.V. shows ". I guess, your love is not real either.

it's so true. this is a game women generally play with us, men. yeah it's not fair or ethical but that's a game they play. like it or not, we have to play along with theirs. that's how i get my other half.

Men play their games, too. Not just women you would like to think. FYI, not ALL women play their games with men. You pick the wrong woman or it is just because, of your attitude. If, you are really genuine without playin' games - then, your love will show true.
 
You don't really know that. If, you are talkin' about " in movies and T.V. shows " which is means that love is not real " in movies and T.V. shows ". I guess, your love is not real either.

serenity now. the love you idolized is just an hollywood love. "love will find you". what the fuck? it's like "money will come to you when you sit back and do nothing" crap. it's not how it works. you have to work your ass off to get what you want. or what you need.

Men play their games, too. Not just women you would like to think. FYI, not ALL women play their games with men. You pick the wrong woman or it is just because, of your attitude.

my attitude? why thank you. ever since i understand the game and i changed my attitude from "mr. nice guy"[tm] to jerk, being single is just an old, foggy memory. of course men do play the game but only because women we are attracted to are playing the game too. what choice do we have? either way, stay single and sleep in a cold bed or to be with a woman and sleep in a warm bed. i don't blame women. i never did. i blame the game itself.

If, you are really genuine without playin' games - then, your love will show true.

heh heh. again, that's an hollywood talk. sorry i don't buy it any more. i had tried that for several years and nothing happens. single and cold bed. until i met a happily married man who understand the world much younger than i am. with his advices and his wisdom, my life gets much, much better when i changed my attitude to jerk. the world where "nice guys finish last" you spoke of is gone and it's finished. it's over. look at president bush. he's the biggest jerk and people love him. look at howard stern. he's a jerk and many women want to fuck him. and so on and on.

if you want to have a lovemate, you have to make a move. will this car starts without a key? well, duh, of course not.
 
Actually this person is in desperate finding one... It is like trying to start drive a car on the 5th gear as first gear to start with! This is gonna ruin the tranny, clutch, and maybe engine! Same thing rush love always ruin the relationship.

 
and then you have to learn how to make right moves. it's just like you did with a car with clutch and gears. it's all a matter of know-how-to-make-a-right-move.

or change a gear in the right place at the right time. there is a reason for a "12" in my member name. after twelfth tries, i finally understand the game and what moves i should make in the right place at the right time. if you fail, try again. if no luck, try again, again and again until you get it right. think of it as a car. would someone without any car mechanic background able to repair a broken engine onto a working engine on first try?

believe me, women can smell desperation from anywhere and it will drive them away if they get wind of it.
 
Think Positive

Hey friends. I heard lots of people found their soul mates through online dating sites. So I also tried few in the hope of meeting that special one. But I guess I am not so lucky.

These sites mainly focus on international dating. I had a long-distance relationship in the past. Oh God! It’s difficult to maintain such relationships. So obviously, I don’t want to commit the same mistake again.

Can somebody tell me some good online dating site where I can get to know people who don’t live far away? I am losing hope. Plzzzzz help me.

Hi Anderson. First of all, think positive. Its not that you are unlucky, it’s just that some people find their true love a little late.

You can check out the site Online Dating Australia It is mainly for singles looking for friendship in Australia. Trust me, its really good. Even my best friend met her husband through this site only. So be optimistic and have patience.
 
Wait! Is this a gimmick from spammer getting our attention and hopefully find one of us sucker go in their dating service? Why this orignal poster got only one post and haven't made second post?

:hmm:
 
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