You don't really know that. If, you are talkin' about " in movies and T.V. shows " which is means that love is not real " in movies and T.V. shows ". I guess, your love is not real either.
serenity now. the love you idolized is just an hollywood love. "love will find you". what the fuck? it's like "money will come to you when you sit back and do nothing" crap. it's not how it works. you have to work your ass off to get what you want. or what you need.
Men play their games, too. Not just women you would like to think. FYI, not ALL women play their games with men. You pick the wrong woman or it is just because, of your attitude.
my attitude? why thank you. ever since i understand the game and i changed my attitude from "mr. nice guy"[tm] to jerk, being single is just an old, foggy memory. of course men do play the game but only because women we are attracted to are playing the game too. what choice do we have? either way, stay single and sleep in a cold bed or to be with a woman and sleep in a warm bed. i don't blame women. i never did. i blame the game itself.
If, you are really genuine without playin' games - then, your love will show true.
heh heh. again, that's an hollywood talk. sorry i don't buy it any more. i had tried that for several years and nothing happens. single and cold bed. until i met a happily married man who understand the world much younger than i am. with his advices and his wisdom, my life gets much, much better when i changed my attitude to jerk. the world where "nice guys finish last" you spoke of is gone and it's finished. it's over. look at president bush. he's the biggest jerk and people love him. look at howard stern. he's a jerk and many women want to fuck him. and so on and on.
if you want to have a lovemate, you have to make a move. will this car starts without a key? well, duh, of course not.