How we view being deaf

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One of the biggest difficulties in writing this column is trying to bridge the gulf between those who see sign language as the solution to all our problems and others who prefer the term 'hearing impaired' and want to make use of modern means of amplification such as hearing aids and cochlear implants.

The first group insist that it is the experience of being deaf and not the condition of being audiologically deaf that is significant.

Deafness is not viewed as an inadequacy and they take exception to those parents who feel they must go through a grieving process when they learn that their child is deaf.

In an article on mediation forwarded to me from the Office of Special Education Programmes in the United States, reference is made to deaf people's lives being riddled with experiences of isolation.

Experiences like eating dinner with their hearing family and being excluded from conversation or missing out on informal discussions at work.

It suggests that so many deaf people are raised by hearing parents or think of themselves as 'hearing impaired' that they don't become aware of their cultural identity until later in life.

Leaders of the signing community counter this mistaken attitude by saying that 'the essence of deafness is not the lack of hearing, but the community and culture based on sign language. Deaf culture represents not a denial but an affirmation'.

Commenting on this, a writer proposed that it would be fair to develop another article reflecting the disability needs of hearing impaired or 'aurally challenged' people who don't sign.

While praising the understanding shown to culturally deaf people, he said it would be helpful to underline the fact that there are two separate groups with different needs.

"I am concerned about two factors: first, the report does not so much as mention that the majority of people who are deaf or hard of hearing do not rely solely, or even primarily, on sign language to communicate.

"Secondly, the portrayal of deaf culture is not balanced with the views of parents of children who are deaf or hard of hearing who continue to choose oral approaches.

"Roughly 28 million Americans experience a significant hearing loss, and many have decided to accommodate the loss, primarily, with hearing technology and spoken English.

"Most depictions of deaf people on TV and films are seen using sign language, but millions of people who would otherwise live without sound, hear and speak with the new technology".

The story is told of President Clinton going into a special meeting at the Oval Office and walking past the interpreter without a thought, but being non-plussed by the Assisted Listening Device on his desk for one of the staff who did not sign. He knew how to use an interpreter, but this new technology had to be explained to him.

In my view it is essential to recognise that the word 'deaf' has many different meanings and the important factor is to find the best way to communicate.

My wife and I attend a hearing church and enjoy the service all the more when we have the help of a skilled interpreter. But other deaf people are perfectly happy with a loop system or their own digital hearing aids and that's how it should be.

By Bob McCullough
 
There are 2 ways of looking at deafness. A person can either be "deaf" or "Deaf." If a person has a hearing loss but doesn't partake in the culture at all, then the person is deaf. But if another person is Hard of Hearing or even hearing pathologically but uses ASL and partakes in the culture, then the person is Deaf.
 
and they take exception to those parents who feel they must go through a grieving process when they learn that their child is deaf.
I do as well although I am NOT one of those activists. Far too many parents grieve for the wrong reasons when they find out that their kids are dhh. I understand...totally understand the grief...it took me most of my childhood and adolescene to come to terms with being deaf, and I've been dhh since I was conceived. It IS hard to face the facts that your child isn't "perfect" but their lives aren't going to be drasticly different from a hearing kid's life!
I think many of the parents who greive either never really knew real live dhh kids growing up, or are those high powered yuppie parents.
I also hate how a lot of those glurg articles make it sound like there's something unique about the experiance of discovering that a kid has a disabilty....there is NOTHING unique about that. Parents react the same if they disocver their kids are gay, attracted to someone not of their race, relgion, or whatever.

"Roughly 28 million Americans experience a significant hearing loss, and many have decided to accommodate the loss, primarily, with hearing technology and spoken English.

"Most depictions of deaf people on TV and films are seen using sign language, but millions of people who would otherwise live without sound, hear and speak with the new technology".
That's b/c the majority of dhh people are late deafened. Only about a million of those 28 million folks are pedatric cases!
In my view it is essential to recognise that the word 'deaf' has many different meanings and the important factor is to find the best way to communicate.
Yes, AG Bellers....that means NOT stubbornly clinging to the assertain that speech is the BEST thing in the world, and giving your child ALL the possible options! Too many people out there are brainwashed into thinking that they don't *need* Sign.
 
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