Thanks, I got over the depression and extreme guilt so I am just more careful. Ironically, a few nights ago, my husband was cooking butternut squash and baked it at 400 degrees in the oven. I was busy with other things and we all went to bed. I woke up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom and I kept smelling this aroma like a scented candle was burning so I looked around the living room and my room to make sure that no candles were left burning and I checked those areas like 5 times throughout the night because my paranoia set in. Saw nothing...went back to sleep. Woke up to go to work and went in the kitchen to get some water. I felt heat from the oven and saw that my husband left it on so I turned it off and opened it, thinking there was nothing in it but sure enough, the butternut squash was still in there and burned beyond black.
My husband was so tired and went to bed. He forgot that he was baking the food in the oven. I told him to pls pls use the timer next time he bakes something so he can hear it and be reminded of it.
Being so exhausted is not helping us. We both have very demanding jobs and our jobs take so much energy from us. Frankly, I am getting sick of it which is why I am looking for another job.