In Jess' situation with that guy...I find that boy ridiculous. Why did he cry after being caught doing that? What a joke. I have done a lot of things with the girls before marriage and I have been caught having sex, kissing, and many to list.. big deal? I did face them after the awkward situation but some of the family members can not forget what they saw for a short while. Some of them and friends faced me with laughter, smile or act like nothing happened. Big Deal. If Jess' mother catch me with my hands down Jess' pants, I will just pull it out and say forgive me, let me go wash my hands and say something to both of the ladies to forget this situation politely. Which that is a lot better then go crying like a little kid.
Married twice, divorced once, and currently in complicated marriage with the 2nd wife for 12 years...this 2nd wife is the one I was doing while being caught few times when we were dating.