whatdidyousay!
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Why are you making this about yourself!!?
If I were an admin of the website, I would end this thread immediately. Redundant behaviors like this is pretty tiresome. It's pointless to throw fire to an already raging fire. Move along...
It's all good, all I did was comment on the video
Nobody is whining or crying, I'm just baffled at this kid. I'll put down in responses to the "options".
Expensive, expensive, expensive. I don't know sign so I think it would be pointless to go there.
I have one at my school. She's great and understanding. Am lucky to have her.
I'm not very good with "deaf communities". I was able to connect with this lady who is losing her hearing though, she's a great woman. That was back in summer I think.
You crazy, fam. LOL
I'm not throwing an expensive tech in the trash can. All I know is that I'm just lucky to be able to speak still and understand some words with it at least.
Yeah man I'm on it, almost done graduating! My social life is fine I think, it's just a bit clumsy. I had a good social life last year though I think now it's shit again oh well it's all good tho. I actually smoked one yesterday but it was shit quality, didn't really get high with a good friend.
Been there, done that.
Yeah I stay in touch with my dis advisor I just asked for CART for guest speakers cuz last week I almost broke down mentally and emotionally so I fought to hold my tears in.
Ummmmm?
Expensive, expensive, expensive. I'm fine tho I think.
You crazy, fam.
I don't have romantic life bro, it is difficult to find one though in my city, where I live, especially with my condition.
If I were an admin of the website, I would end this thread immediately. Redundant behaviors like this is pretty tiresome. It's pointless to throw fire to an already raging fire. Move along...
Nah fuck that I was born healthy until 2 yrs old my life got fucked up. Sometimes I give shit to my parents for not looking after me properly when I was little. And because of it I can't find a girl. W/e though.
I do try to be positive, yes. I'm no stranger to the self-toxicity, though so it's all good.
It's funny cause I never managed to kiss a girl nor hold hands with anyone and I'm almost 30, probably never will. Yes I go to gym sometimes, I enjoy a good workout for weight loss and cutting some pounds to look sharp sometimes.
But anyway, the dude in the video is an inspiration to all. He'll find a girl sooner than I ever will.
I have suggested taking up a hobby or volunteering at an animal shelter to meet people too. How about is everybody situation ?Finding a girl isn't a deaf/hearing problem, bud. It's an everybody problem. And problem is the wrong word, but I can't think of a better one off the top of my head.
Maybe try to stop focusing on that?
Do some gym time.. or find a hobby?
Take a class that a lot of females take?
...Yoga
The most popular-with-the-ladies young man I knew was a Deaf minority who very rarely spoke. He always had a pleasant smile and attitude, was alert to what was going on, dressed in a unique but nice way, and communicated with young women mostly thru note writing. Rather than it being a bother, the girls seem to think it was charming. Here was a guy willing to make the effort to write back and forth with them. It was more personal than texting. Of course, I don't know what words he wrote.
He didn't date all these women; he was just friendly with everyone. But he did date some, and eventually had a serious girlfriend. He also got along with his co-workers, customers, teachers and classmates. I met some of his childhood teachers or former customers and they all remembered him fondly.
The main thing was his attitude. He stayed positive. When things didn't go right he didn't dwell on it but moved on to the next moment and opportunity.
He wasn't rich or famous. He didn't have speech skills. He was friendly and positive.
So does that mean you can't have a positive attitude until you reach your goal ?? The young man in the video is blind and deaf and he play football and is going to college and he is younger than you . And he is a has great sense of humor which women love , he not making excuses to why he can't get ahead in life . He is enjoying his life to the fullness and a positive attitude .I understand your point but I'm still trying to recover and manage my disability so the success isn't overnight. Thank you for sharing.