how do you like your bed? soft, firm or hard

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how do you like your bed and pillow? soft, firm or hard

mine just firm bed and firm pillows too.
i don't like waterbed, that was my partner's old waterbed 5 yrs ago.
and also i don't like futon, that one is hard and i woke up feeling stiff.

some couples have different preference for bed.

some couples want separate bed doesn't mean they are separate.
 
Bed, firm enough to keep me in good alignment, but still soft enough to distribute pressure evenly...

Pillow, depends on the thickness. Thick pillow needs to be softer, thinner ones need to be more firm, to keep my neck in alignment.

Also need a leg elevating wedge, firm but somewhat forming, not hard...
 
hard bed is good to keep my back flat. Otherwise, I would roll and cause ouch-back. ehh...
 
We bought new bed...HATES it! I don't like pillow top! So one day we'll replace it and must be FIRM. Not extra firm just firm to be comfortable to sleep! Next one I hope king size bed but wait and see! LOL!
 
My bed is med firm perfect not too hard or too soft. Just comfortable enough to sleep well. As for my pillow, I like it soft.
 
Firm bed, firm pillow to keep my head up so I can breathe.(asthma)
 
Firm posturepedic mattress and firm latex foam pillow. *yawns & stretches contentedly* :)
 
I used to have a bed that was so soft that your whole body would be curved from sleeping in it. It was nice at first, but became uncomfortable for me since I usually sleep on my side... and rarely my front. Having a curved bed is good for sleeping on your back, not your side or front. That's why it was uncomfortable for me.

I'm using a firm queen-sized bed. Ahh... feels good! :)
 
A firm bed is preferable for me, however it's got to have a pillow top on it as well because if it is too firm, it will throw my sleep out of a loop.
 
MeYag2CAL said:
how do you like your bed and pillow? soft, firm or hard

mine just firm bed and firm pillows too.
i don't like waterbed, that was my partner's old waterbed 5 yrs ago.
and also i don't like futon, that one is hard and i woke up feeling stiff.

some couples have different preference for bed.

some couples want separate bed doesn't mean they are separate.
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I CANNOT sleep on a futon mattress. It is ROCK HARD! My body will declare World War III on me for it, for real, if I sleep on it even for just one night!!!

I am currently sleeping on a memory foam mattress that I put on top of my regular mattress. It helps somewhat, but I think I might benefit better from a medical grade air mattress like one of my friends has. The purpose of the air mattress would be to create less pressure points for me when I sleep on it. If my doctor documents/declares a medical need for this mattress I can get Medicare/Medicaid to cover it. I'm gonna discuss this with my spine specialist when I see him next time.

My bed is a queen size...I refuse to sleep in a twin size bed Someday I will get a KING size bed, LOL!
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
I CANNOT sleep on a futon mattress. It is ROCK HARD! My body will declare World War III on me for it, for real, if I sleep on it even for just one night!!!

I am currently sleeping on a memory foam mattress that I put on top of my regular mattress. It helps somewhat, but I think I might benefit better from a medical grade air mattress like one of my friends has. The purpose of the air mattress would be to create less pressure points for me when I sleep on it. If my doctor documents/declares a medical need for this mattress I can get Medicare/Medicaid to cover it. I'm gonna discuss this with my spine specialist when I see him next time.

My bed is a queen size...I refuse to sleep in a twin size bed Someday I will get a KING size bed, LOL!
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I've never slept on those things. I've heard it's good, but I can't find anyone who has one for me to try out. I don't want to shell out a lot of money for something that I might end up not liking. :(
 
i have problem with my mattress because i had hard move myself because of my back lots and i would like comfort for my back but im wishes for king sizes and soft makes me comfort and im been stretch my back sometimes and its dont work out!
 
sara1981 said:
i have problem with my mattress because i had hard move myself because of my back lots and i would like comfort for my back but im wishes for king sizes and soft makes me comfort and im been stretch my back sometimes and its dont work out!
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sorry it doesn't work out for you for the bed. in future, you can go to mattress and to test all different mattress to see how you like it. take your time, don't let salesperson pressure you to buy it. testing is always first.
 
i have shitty queen mattress need to get new one soon i guess i would get firm mattress
 
MeYag2CAL said:
sorry it doesn't work out for you for the bed. in future, you can go to mattress and to test all different mattress to see how you like it. take your time, don't let salesperson pressure you to buy it. testing is always first.
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Yeah... just walk in a mattress store... run... jump... land on your back on the first mattress you see... keep bouncing and jump to the next mattress. Keep going until you find something you like. ;)
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
I CANNOT sleep on a futon mattress. It is ROCK HARD! My body will declare World War III on me for it, for real, if I sleep on it even for just one night!!!

I am currently sleeping on a memory foam mattress that I put on top of my regular mattress. It helps somewhat, but I think I might benefit better from a medical grade air mattress like one of my friends has. The purpose of the air mattress would be to create less pressure points for me when I sleep on it. If my doctor documents/declares a medical need for this mattress I can get Medicare/Medicaid to cover it. I'm gonna discuss this with my spine specialist when I see him next time.

My bed is a queen size...I refuse to sleep in a twin size bed Someday I will get a KING size bed, LOL!
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I'm the same way with a futon bed. It hurts my back, even for a night and I'd be stiff all day long after sleeping on a futon bed. The mattress itself is all right but when it is really thin, that's what makes it harder and uncomfortable to sleep on.
 
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