How did your parents feeling about you?

[Pinky]

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How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?

Do you think your parents are control your life?

Is your parents open-minded?

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?

Is your parents like to spoil on you?

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?




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[shel90]

I am thinking about make a new thread since in other thread's off-topic posts. I want to make a topic about "Your parents do care if you live with boyfriend/girlfriend before married or never married?" This thread topic is not full. It's limited.

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?

I was 21 years old

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?

My dad didnt care but my mom did so out of respect for her, I didnt live with my ex hubby before we got married.

Do you think your parents are control your life?

When my mom visists...I could sense a little bit of her trying to control how I run my household. My dad...he didnt want any control at all.

Is your parents open-minded?
My mom is but to a certain degree. My dad is TOO open minded! He askes me if I had a good night getting knocked up when I told him I was pregnant with my son. I was like at my dad! LOL!

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?

I rebelled a little against my mom cuz of her ex boyfriend being an asshole but other than that, I really did respect and follow their rules. Never was late nor missed a curfew. I knew, as a teenager, how hard it was for my mom to raise my brother and I on her own and I didnt want to cause more problems for her.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?

My mom wanted me to wait until I was 30! My dad also didnt like the idea of me marrying at 21 either.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?

I love both of them to death. I acknowledge their flaws and dont love them any less for who they are.

Is your parents like to spoil on you? My dad is wealthy and he believes that everyone should work for what they want so I was never spoiled by him. My mom was poor and tried to spoil us as much as she could. Ironic, isnt it?

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?

I wish my mom had continued her college education and gotten a better job instead of being bitter about money. Also, I did not appreciate my mom being constantly critical of herself cuz it affected my brother and I. Also, I didnt appreciate my dad being an asshole or close-minded about some issues but that's them so nothing I can do about it.

Other than that, I appreciate everything they have done for me...my mom working hard to raise us and being there for us or putting us before herself. I also appreciate my dad taking us on several adventures/trips/having fun when it was his weekend with us. I have so many wonderful memories of those adventures.



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[Bottesini]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?18 but it was to a group home for three years.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry? They would not have approved.

Do you think your parents are control your life? They wanted to be in complete control of my life.

Is your parents open-minded? They were not at all open minded.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?Absolutely rebelled. I would still be in some assisted living and not have had a happy life if I did not rebel.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?That did not happen.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?I don't love them as much as they love me.

Is your parents like to spoil on you?Some ways I was spoiled, but it came with a lot of controlling.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?No. I am proud of me and my husband because we made our own great lifestyle against the odds.

 

[beaglegalz]

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I am thinking about make a new thread since in other thread's off-topic posts. I want to make a topic about "Your parents do care if you live with boyfriend/girlfriend before married or never married?" This thread topic is not full. It's limited.

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own? Old enough

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?Well I don't know if they accept me to live with boyfriend before I got marry

Do you think your parents are control your life?Yes sometimes.

Is your parents open-minded? I guess so they are.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel? sometimes

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush? No they never picking on me to get marry in rush.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value? Yes very much.

Is your parents like to spoil on you? I guess so when I was young.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?no we are our own lifie but they sometime they advice us



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[Pinky]

About me. My dad was died when I was 15. I was raising with my mom until she get married with I was 18.

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own? 19 because I can't stand to be around with stepdad. He drove me

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry? My mom didn't approve it. I rebelled her advice.

Do you think your parents are control your life? Um, Yes sometime. They are care about me a lot. But my mom made mistake. She isn't 100% control. I can say it's 50%

Is your parents open-minded? Sometime, But my mom is closed-mind about porn stuff, and partyhead with alcohols.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel? Sometime. But I have to follow my mom's rules mostly. I was rebelling her influence me to not have sex until I get marry.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush? very emotion and stress. My mom picked on me to get marry. She wanted me to get marry at age 23 when I lived with my husband. But I got married at age 26 half.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value? Yes, I love them very much! They are care about me. I still miss my dad so much. Me and my mom are along as well.

Is your parents like to spoil on you? yeah always! She always spoil on me more than my brother. Because my brother is still dishonoring mother.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle? Ummm it depend. I did thank to them for got me a brace teeth to make a straight. They wanted me to get CI. But I didn't want it when I was kid. My parents didn't want me to go to deaf school. I was so stubborn. I never get success with High School. But I did grateful to my mom for help me to found a right man from god answered my pray. I noticed my parents never get divorced. I asked her how I can find a right man? She said it from god answered my pray. I am so happy with my husband so far. My mom wanted me to be happy being married. She is very good help me very much.

 

[lilylover72]

I am thinking about make a new thread since in other thread's off-topic posts. I want to make a topic about "Your parents do care if you live with boyfriend/girlfriend before married or never married?" This thread topic is not full. It's limited.

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own? I was 18 years old.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry? They didn't mind.

Do you think your parents are control your life?Well My mom didnt approve me for divorce my husband.

Is your parents open-minded? Depend on something

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel? I respect my parent's rules. I didn't rebel much

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush? It didnt happen before,

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value? Yes I love them so much. My mom and I have problem for a while about my stupid divorce.

Is your parents like to spoil on you? they spoil me and my son.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?Yes and no

 

[Byrdie714]

I am thinking about make a new thread since in other thread's off-topic posts. I want to make a topic about "Your parents do care if you live with boyfriend/girlfriend before married or never married?" This thread topic is not full. It's limited.

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own? 19 years old, first time in college and my own apartment.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry? No.

Do you think your parents are control your life? No.
Is your parents open-minded? Yes.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel? A little of both Especially my mouth...

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush? They never did.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value? We love each other very much and value our time together.

Is your parents like to spoil on you? Yes, who doesn't like to be spoiled?
Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle? Yes because without them, I wouldn't have travelled/seen the world.



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[Foxrac]

I am thinking about make a new thread since in other thread's off-topic posts. I want to make a topic about "Your parents do care if you live with boyfriend/girlfriend before married or never married?" This thread topic is not full. It's limited.

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own? 18 years old, just moved in my relative's house in last 2 years ago and will move back with my parent in Dec 08.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry? Not really, except for my grandma.

Do you think your parents are control your life? Sometime, depends on situation, they are very picky about college that I should go there, I disagree with their decision then forced me go to college that they picked it and I fought with them for my rights, I won.

Is your parents open-minded? Most time, except for varies of political issue, just avoid to discuss with them but my grandma isn't at all time, very crazy than I was expected.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel? I usually follow their rule but did rebelled so several time, most of rebel were happen when I was in high school but after graduated then no, alot of thing are change after graduate, they let me to do anything on my own.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush? No but my grandma, she made very pressure me to find woman and marry at early age but I refused because I don't want be responsible for divorce, that's more risky, I prefer to marry during late 20's, 30's or probably not happen.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value? Yes, most of part.

Is your parents like to spoil on you? Not at most time.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle? Some part, I had very serious situation in last 2 years ago due argue and control about my future plan but solved via discussed with them online.




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[GalaxyAngel]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?
I was 16 yrs old. Never like my parent what have done terrible to me.. I made decision move out. Actually long story.
Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?
Not even care, as long I'm happy.
Do you think your parents are control your life?
Yes, they were... Totally 99%
Is your parents open-minded?
Yes they are but sometimes being an assh0le

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?
I'm pure rebel against my parent's request.. not even understand how I feel because doesn't like being isolation around full of crowd.. want part of Deaf Cultures and social too.. They are really hate me part of them.. I don't give them a fuk. I'm glad, I'm happy who am I.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?
Never

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?
I love my mom but not DAD!

Is your parents like to spoil on you?
Never spoiling me.. They are spoiling on my two siblings.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?
Heck no.. Wishes their way want be control their lifestyles.. I refused be part of their lifestyles.

 

[Cheri]

.How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?

At the age of 18. My parents were divorce at that time, I was living with my mom, I had to get out of there, living with her was hell.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?

They never judged me based on who I lived with, they trust my judgment.

Do you think your parents are control your life?

No

Is your parents open-minded?

at times my dad can be, but my mom that's another story.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?

While living under their roof most of the time I did, there are times I did not.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?

My parents never had pressured or rush me into marriage.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?

I adore my father, and you could say I do, but my mother... that's another story, there are times I have to remember that no matter how bad she was, I have to learn to love her because she will always be my mother.

Is your parents like to spoil on you

Not really.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?

I'm more grateful for my dad, without him, I would have been adopted out I might would never knew I had a twin sister that was deaf like me. I'm not grateful of my mother, I've heard she wanted to leave my sister and I behind at the hospital after finding out we were deaf.

 

[WhisperHorse]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?

I moved out when I was 19 years old then moved back to my parents' then moved out again when I was 20 years old, now Im back to my parents' house. Soon, will move out once Im more stable.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?

Nope since they found out about me. They was pretty surprised to hear that.

Do you think your parents are control your life?

Nope

Is your parents open-minded?

*ahems* They are VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY open minded than everybody that I ever met.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?

Depends on what rule and my mood are

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?

Nah, they begged me to wait and find a right guy before go ahead to marry

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?

Yes, I do.

Is your parents like to spoil on you?

Yes, they do spoil me with their own love and caring.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?

Yes, for whole of my life since they brought me up in this world.

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[~*Kaelei*~]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?I was only eighteen when I moved out of my parents house...well I was "Kicked" out...

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry? My parents hated the idea but again, they don't want me to be living with them, not enspecially when I was pregnant back then.

Do you think your parents are control your life? My parents DID control my life...my friends can see that and they kept telling me that my parents are controlling my life. I was blind about it until I was in Jr. Year at High school...the harder they tried to control me, the harder I try to free myself from them.

Is your parents open-minded? Call my parents old fashion...they are not open - minded. My husband is 16 years older than me and they do not accept that, they don't like the fact that my husband is 16 years older than me, that he has more experiences than the men do at my age.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel? I followed my parents rules until my Dad got remarried. After Dad got remarried, I didn't like him or my step mom so I rebelled them all the time...even though they saw me as innocent little girl...I was rebelling them, lying to them all the time so I can do things I want to do. For example, I told my dad that I go to Youth Group every Wednesday when in reality I went over my friends house and we would go hang out, like in Portland or someone's house until late at night.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush? My parents didn't want me to get married until I'm like late 20's or early 30's, and certainly not to marry a man who's way older than me. Hell, they were still hoping that I would marry my ex that they loved, because my ex loved my parents so much that he blindly follows them. To say, they hate the fact that I married to this man.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value? Sure, I love and care about my Dad...but things between us are not good at all, they haven't been good since my Dad got remarried when I was 15 and is always gone all the time with his "new" wife, vacationing and working all the time.

Is your parents like to spoil on you? I was SPOILED, because I was only child until my dad got remarried...but I was still being SPOILED by my grandparents because I'm only granddaughter they had and I'm my mom's daughter, so therefore I'm only connection they have to their daughter. My mom passed away when I was only 14 due to cancer.

After my dad got remarried, I wasn't spoiled anymore by my Dad...My two stepsisters and I sure would get lots of things for Xmas and for birthday...but as for rest of the year, we have to earn money to get the things we want.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle? In a way, I am grateful. I'm grateful to my parents for my lifestyle that I was given from birth to until my Dad got remarried, my life was comfortable, loved and everything. But After my Dad got remarried, he has truly opened my eyes on what he strongly believes. By the time my dad got remarried, we were fairly wealthy and we lived in wealthy house...but Dad was hardly at home at all, neither was his wife. They were always working 12 hours a day for five days a week, and on weekends, both of them would be gone, either on vacation or doing who knows what. To say, my stepsisters and I were left alone for to defend ourselves with responsibility such as doing house chores, cooking our own meals, doing our own laundry and so on. He cares more about status of wealth, of having money because he buys bunch of things to show off wealth that we are in. I care more about Family and Love, something that's different between my Dad and I.

 

[Rio]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own? I was in my 20's when I moved out.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?
Growing up yes, they would object it. Especially my dad. My parents are divorced after 25 years of marriage.
Do you think your parents are control your life?
Absolutely not! I am 40 now, as a younger person my mom tried to be the controlling one after years of battling with her , she can' do that to me anymore.
Is your parents open-minded?
My dad is conservative and my mom is more open-minded.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?
I did a little bit of both, I did rebel.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?
They never really rushed me into anything regarding marriage.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?
I have a closer relationship with my dad, of course I care about him and value the help he gave me during my injury more than my mom. I love my mom, but we can't live under the same roof.

Is your parents like to spoil on you?
Yes, growing up my mom did. It was not a good thing, she only did for show.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?
Yes, my parents did their best as they were young when they had me. My mom was in hs pregnant with me and my dad already graduated. He did the right thing to marry my mom and five years later my brother came along. They ended up in divorce after 25 years of marriage which was a total hardship on me mentally.

 

[restless_heart]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?

On my own will...Seventeen...and still on my own ever since...

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?

No, they always accepted and be on my side all the way to the end with their love and undersatanding...

Do you think your parents are control your life?

No, never...

Is your parents open-minded?

Yes, especially my father...

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?

Yes. I was a rebel...but after being on my own, I grew up lot faster...

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?

They don't pick on me. They accepted, and be on my side all the way with love and understanding...

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?

Yes, we live each day as if it was our last ever since my sister passed away in 1985...spend most time as possible as much as we can like there's no tomorrow...

Is your parents like to spoil on you?

No, they taught us love and be fair. Accept life as it is...they taught us the old sayings...if we want something, we earn it...life is about choices, we choose the right choices to prevent pains and sufferings and we all do make mistakes and learn from it...we never ask anything. We are always happy what we have...

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?

They were always proud of me no matter what. They were and are still there for me and my brother and be as we are no matter what. They do enjoy to be part of my life, in another world and to see what was like. They do enjoy their adventure to see the other side of me in my younger years...but in high school, they let me follow my heart to be back in hearing world where I belong and enjoy two different worlds at the same time...My parents are still together and happily married for 41 years this November...

 

[sara1981]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?
till i get married!

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?
Never!

Do you think your parents are control your life?
yeah but sometimes not lots

Is your parents open-minded?
not really

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?
yeah i do obey my parent's rules but i cant argues!

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?
Never rushed! when my parents got married in 1977 very young when my mom was 19 years old and my dad was 25 years old but i dont like rushed get married! but i would like getting married at ages 30 years old that my choice ages but my parents never force me to get married! but just wait find right man but im dating James from London,England and he told me says dont be rushed to getting married.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?
oh yeah of course!

Is your parents like to spoil on you?
never really!

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?
yes

 

[IslandBreeze07]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own? went to college, between internships until I moved off-island for good.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry? They cared more about how well the bf treated me or not than the living arrangements.

Do you think your parents are control your life? No.

Is your parents open-minded? pretty much so, but there's some things they're not that open minded about. We agree to disagree.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel? We respected our parents a lot. Nothing more than the typical teenage stuff. Mom always considered herself lucky because we didn't get arrested, get into bad stuff, or anything like that. We were brought up well, and it shows.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush? No rush. They didn't even have a problem with us now. As long as I'm happy.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value? Yes

Is your parents like to spoil on you? They took really good care of us, and like to spend time and $$$ on our children.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle? Looking back, I had a real good childhood, and that's alot offered to children in those days. My lifestyle in the past 15 years have been through my choices, not theirs. I'm very grateful for my parents for the very fact they had me in the first place and raising me in a good part of the world with education, intelligence and support they've always given me over the years.

 

[JClarke]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?

I moved out when Iw as 20, but moved back when I was 21....

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?

Well, I am single right now and I am not sure what their opinion would be when I have one ---

Do you think your parents are control your life?

Well, sometimes but now I am 21, they can't control what I am doing and want.

Is your parents open-minded?

No, closed minded, unfortunately.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?

Sometimes both -- end up in an heated discussion

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?

I'm in no hurry but would like to be married by the time I'm 30. And my parents doesn't even care when but it was never brought up.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?

Yes, of course.

Is your parents like to spoil on you?

they are not spoiled, which is good and I have come to understand that bring spoiled can be affected with your life and all. It is important to not to spoil anything such if I want to spoil my future kids, I wouldn't do that. I want to see that they have a good future ahead.

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?

yes, they are happily married for 23 years now, and things are looking good. At the moment, my parents are proud of me on what I am at such as my job and the lifestyle I am in.

 

[Pinky]

to y'all for answered the questions about the feeling with parents.

 

[imdeafsowhat]

How old did you move out of parents' house to be on your own?
17 when I was given a choices, Gallaudet or the road.

Does your parents care about you to live with boyfriend/girlfriend before marry?
They did until I told them how she was so good in bed. They felt confident that I will stay with her for the rest of my life.

Do you think your parents are control your life?
They're not controlling enough. It was I who controlled their life.

Is your parents open-minded?
They have to be or they can't have me as their child.

Do you follow your parent's rules or rebel?
My parents were the rebels when I established rules.

How did you feeling about your parents picking on you to get marry in rush?
Marriage comes second and Babies come first for my parents.

Do you really love your parents so much as they are care about you most value?
I love my mom. My dad, I love his appearing and disappearing.

Is your parents like to spoil on you?
Every chance they get. But mostly, I'd say "IT'S NOT ENOUGH!"

Did you grateful to your parents for your great lifestyle?
They are fond of my lifestyle, but they wouldn't take credits for having a great lifestyle that I am living. Simply because they did nothing but guide me with suggestions.

 

[JClarke]

imdeafsowhat - you're talking the opposite