How did you meet your husband/wife/lover?

FeistyChick said:
where is YOUR STORY!??? :whip:
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Oh god... How did I meet American Chopper... Let him tell the story to AllDeaf....

:-o
 
Sabrina said:
Oh god... How did I meet American Chopper... Let him tell the story to AllDeaf....

:-o
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why can't YOU TELL THE STORY!??? :squint:

BAWK BAWK BAWK!!! :rofl:
 
Thank you, FeistyChick...


:bump: Come on Sabrina... Don´t be shy to tell us the story how you met Americancopper :angel:

Sabrina :whip: Liebling... come on...
 
downing said:
Oh boy.. here I go...

I had to transfer to other drawing class (yes - NUDE) because I had a rift with a professor that I could not get along at RIT. The Dean of Art agreed that I would be better off in other class because for some reasons the Professor kept picking on me and giving me some of hell. Even the professor got warning.. he still did it (eventually he got fired the next year- thank god for it).

I was awkard about going to another drawing class because i was already in middle of my quarter of the year (2nd Quarter)...meaning I would have to meet new group that follows same schedule. there are like three groups on three diff same schedule so they all kept the same ppl for three yrs thru foundation of art. Its complicated anywayyyyy..

I went to drawing class. of course all hearing.. only three deaf guys that the dean told me.. me being only deaf lady.. oh boy.. I met all two but not the third one.. I just chose the desk next to a guy that looked like he had a major hangover. This friend of mine siad oh don't bother him, he s always out... I went ohh okayy..whatever..

Eventually that day. This guy looked up and stared at me. I thought he was an hearing guy, I said hi there. he looked mean guy.. then went back to ingore me. I told myself. jeez what an asshole...okay whatever as long i know he is an damn loser.

Eventually few days, i asked my friend. where is the third deaf guy that I was told I would meet.. my friend said well you already met him. I said really? who?? he said well that asshole you were telling me. Then I looked around and saw him watching me.. feeling I was idiot the whole time making fun of him and not realizing he was deaf. Eventually we became good friends the following years. he roommated my ex bf and shared same bday....

I broke up my ex bf... I was home for the summer, my hubby called me in the summer and chatted til we came back for our last yr at RIT. we started dating and we knew we hit it off. we have known each other for 12 yrs...married for 7 yrs, and we have two wonderful little boys... I guess I did marry my asshole guy... :mrgreen:
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:) What a great story Downing. We always have been told by our parent's to watch what we say. In your case? What you said didn't get you into trouble, it got you into a wonderful life in marriage with this man. I guess it's true when they say "expect the unexpected".
 
Liebling:-))) said:
wow interesting thread here...


My German hubby Uwe and group from Deaf Club went to London for 3 days from Germany to play friendly football match with the group from my Deaf Club in London. That's where I met him in May 1983... :) It's cute that we can't understand our languages... we use English/German dictonary and also body gesture... :giggle:

I laughed at Uwe and don't beleive him when he asked for exchange our addresses. I thought he would forget me when he went back to Germany.

I was speechless when he wrote cute English (he pick English from German/English dictonary) postcard. I got his postcards/letters every 2 days... :eek2: I began realize that he is serious about me and meant honestly that he fall in love with me in hard way when he asked me what I do during summer time. I told him about booked my holiday plan to Africa with my friend at 6 months ago but he asked me where/which hotel we will spend our holiday. I was like :eek2: and give him the hotel where we will stay. He went to book the same hotel and inform us that he will come one week later after our arrival. I was speechless...

We enjoyed our one week vacation in Africa then Uwe came... I can't beleive when the manager of hotel gave me a note telling me which room number Uwe stay. I can't beleive it's really him who follow me to Africa.. :eek2: We spend other 2 weeks vacation and can't beleive that Uwe is very patience and very respect when I don't want to be his lover yet but give me time to be enjoy first... I grow love him more and more every day thru his gentle and respectful way.

One month later in September 1983 after our vacation in Africa, I went to visit Uwe & his family in Germany for one week vacation. We become wonderful lover...... and then go Germany again to spent Christmas holiday in December 1983. It grow worst and deep in love...

His first visit to London to spent his 1 week holiday with me in my apartment where I celebrate my 21st birthday party in Feb. 1984.

Uwe asked me to marry him in August 1984 in Germany where we sit on the bench in hill of forest to have view on sunset.

Uwe & I celebrated alone our engagement on Boxing Day 1984 and first saw that Uwe lit the candles and fall in love it... Unforgetable...

We saw each other 13 times in 1983 to 1985 and also wrote letters awful alot then married on 7th September 1985 in London then go off for week honeymoon in Paris before left England to live in Germany on 15th September 1985. (We still keep our letter in attic)... I sometimes re-read those letter when I clean in the attics...

We decided to not want to have babies right now and want to enjoy each other first and began to travel every Europe and overseas alot for 7 years before start to buy the land to built our dream house then start family...

We married happily for almost 20 years now and have 2 handsome sons. I have everything what I dream for...
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:) Leibling what a beautiful story of love, respect and patience your husband Uwe had for you!!!! The most important ingredients for a successful life together. You both were lucky to find each other.
 
javapride said:
i met hiblue at the civil defense for a breif time she was very sweet and i didn't think nothing of it at first cuz i was healing from my last break up... well come christmas party she takes me to the side and said would like to meet up with you in the next couple of weeks i said sure gave her my e mail and then we talked and talked all night Dec 11th and hooked up since... so yah its been a great 8 months for us.. sure ups and down but so far smooth sailing.. she taught me alot as i have for her! \,,/_ u my aloha babe :)
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:angel: Hey Java and Hi Blue, after reading your beautiful story and looking at your avatar, you 2 are really perfect together, you both look great together. Many happy years together for you both in the future.
 
FeistyChick said:
what a funny story!!! :)
but a happy ending one though!!! :hug:
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:cheers: lol yes my friend you're right, it was funny how things went between Manny and I, and it did have a happy ending.

I am very excited for you that you will be seeing the love of your life soon. Have a wonderful time!!!! :hug:
 
Sabrina said:
Oh god... How did I meet American Chopper... Let him tell the story to AllDeaf....

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aww girl.. pls tell us a story abt both of u!!! pretty pls! :mrgreen:
 
wow What a story? I love the romances story cuz it melted my heart. Thanks gals and guys. :hug:

Sorry I cant post anything here cuz I dont have a special person in my life. Only my son. :D

When I do then I will post it here.

Best wishes to all of you and good luck.
 
I ran into Todd (my current beau) last February at a deaf gathering, but didn't realise who he was as I didn't know his surname until a couple months later. It turned out to be the same Todd I knew from when we were classmates at the local elementary public school! We hadn't seen each others in 25 years - once we got to know each others more 2 months ago, we clicked right there and are still discovering things about each others everyday, :giggle:.
:D Been together for nearly 3 months now.
 
Umm, let me tell short story... about me and DreamDeaf... 2001, She been figures who I was cuz my dad told her about me moving here from Texas. One weekend, at deaf club... I came in and sees her sitting with her friends. I barely introuduce myself but one guy already introduced me to her. She was like drooling at me real hard. I starts giggle at her cuz of her looks. Her friend tryed to get her attention but she still drooling at me.

all the years, we been friends. I knew she is Bisexual but not know much till last year, 2004. We finally sit down and chatting to get us to know each other better and comfortable where we are now.
 
it could be very intersting story about me and FlyFree....

When i was dating with Sleepytaz that time to time and we broke up for a reason so i found out that FlyFree had been reading all my post when i come in to the alldeaf, so i didn't bother to know about it later i come to the deafqueer chat room and i also didn't know flyfree have the sn till i had a feeling that it would be her from alldeaf so i pm her one day if she is a that sn from deafqueer, so we did chat from this.. and flyfree admitted that she had a crush on me which i didnt bother to think but we keep chat and chat some we decide to meet in person so oh my ... she is very very nervous to meet me in the person so i come up and pick her up and blah blah blah so we quickly hit it off! everyday we love more and more.. we ardore eachother so much.

IRLY to my soaring eagle!
 
My story

I met my lady in high school. I was a new student at CSDF. Erin approached me and took my hat and ran. I was not happy about that. I chased her down and got it back. Guess what? I was not even interested in her at first but she liked me. I thought she was too good for me. She really helped turn my life around. She was my first real girlfriend. We broke up a year later. She graduated and went to Gallaudet. I was a senior in high school when we got back together again. I saw her at a party and the magic was still there. I graduated school and went to Gallaudet. Well, she broke up with me in college..AGAIN!! I was crushed and ended up leaving school and going back to California. I ended up getting getting married and then divorced. Well, 15 years go by and I have 3 kids and a good business. Out of the blue she emails me and says "how are you?". She flies from Maryland to California to visit. Well, she never returned to Maryland. She stayed! We have been together since. We have a unique connection. I have a twin sister and Erin has a twin sister. How about that? Twins in love! She is, was, and always will be the love of my life. I'm lucky to have Erin back with me. I love this lady!
 
IrishmanDan said:
I met my lady in high school. I was a new student at CSDF. Erin approached me and took my hat and ran. I was not happy about that. I chased her down and got it back. Guess what? I was not even interested in her at first but she liked me. I thought she was too good for me. She really helped turn my life around. She was my first real girlfriend. We broke up a year later. She graduated and went to Gallaudet. I was a senior in high school when we got back together again. I saw her at a party and the magic was still there. I graduated school and went to Gallaudet. Well, she broke up with me in college..AGAIN!! I was crushed and ended up leaving school and going back to California. I ended up getting getting married and then divorced. Well, 15 years go by and I have 3 kids and a good business. Out of the blue she emails me and says "how are you?". She flies from Maryland to California to visit. Well, she never returned to Maryland. She stayed! We have been together since. We have a unique connection. I have a twin sister and Erin has a twin sister. How about that? Twins in love! She is, was, and always will be the love of my life. I'm lucky to have Erin back with me. I love this lady!
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wow... Beautiful and romantic story here! :thumb:

I´m happy for you!
 
Well, in 1996, i was in college with friends, they went to homecoming, and i went there. I saw most handsome and cute guy in my own eyes, which is my "first sight" til they told me his name. And, introduce me to him. Some how, we didn't let our eyes contact go. Even I still remmy what he was look like and how i felt. Years go by, gone to deafchat, and he was there, and decide to get know each other, and we keep talked and flirt around. When i hangs w/ friend, and visit him few times, we still have that eye contacts and start feel more feeling in each other even we have boyfriend/girlfriend. But we just decide to be friends, somehow we end up into bad relationship with others. And, we talked more and get know each other. And, decide to meet, we were so shy cuz we never knew that we BOTH likes each other alots. So, our eye contact re still the sames, but our love is much stronger each day. we met in 2004. We been wondered if we ever been together since 1996, will be make alots difference. Haha. (even my man still remmy what i was wore and what i was look like exactly in 1996) image that?!?! He always say most beautiful he ever see and gonna love that woman! LOL
 
AngelOfRoses said:
In April of 2001, I met my husband Ed through the Christian chatroom at deafchat.com. ..We have been married for 3 years. Guess what?? We are blessed to have a beautiful baby girl who is 17 months old. :)
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That is such a sweet story! Thank you for sharing. :)
 
IrishmanDan said:
I met my lady in high school. I was a new student at CSDF. Erin approached me and took my hat and ran. I was not happy about that. I chased her down and got it back. Guess what? I was not even interested in her at first but she liked me. I thought she was too good for me. She really helped turn my life around. She was my first real girlfriend. We broke up a year later. She graduated and went to Gallaudet. I was a senior in high school when we got back together again. I saw her at a party and the magic was still there. I graduated school and went to Gallaudet. Well, she broke up with me in college..AGAIN!! I was crushed and ended up leaving school and going back to California. I ended up getting getting married and then divorced. Well, 15 years go by and I have 3 kids and a good business. Out of the blue she emails me and says "how are you?". She flies from Maryland to California to visit. Well, she never returned to Maryland. She stayed! We have been together since. We have a unique connection. I have a twin sister and Erin has a twin sister. How about that? Twins in love! She is, was, and always will be the love of my life. I'm lucky to have Erin back with me. I love this lady!
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Well, hiya there! :D Hope to see you and Erin one day soon around the Bay Area. ;)
 
Wow what a great story I read here!
I met my ex hubby at babysitting (isn't that strange?) and I didnt realize that he was there as I was walking in my pajamas that embarrassed me real bad (1989).

So anyway now few weeks (this yr. as last June) before I left for the long journey with my son recently I took my son for his early b'day and the man walked toward to introduce himself to us and we chatted for two hours and during that time my son fell asleep on chair while we chatted. So now we are dating (not bf/gf yet) since I told him I want to take time to get know him first before do anything. Now hes very nice and respectful I ever met. Funny thing when my son and I flew back to USA from Paris and all of suddenly I thought my next door (new) was picking us up at airport but instead that man came and surprised us. What a strange!
 
I was the last female that my husband would ever pick out from his work. (He worked at a place where there are alot of people interacting so naturally he met some of his exes there and lastly, me). It was a day before my 18th birthday when my new friends begged me to go to a college's Deaf pizza night. I wasn't up to it since I was having my first college final exam the next day but somehow I ended up being in the car that transported me to the destination.
My (now) husband saw me there-- I was the only person he didn't know-- so he came over to introduce himself. I remembered it clearly-- his eyes were the same color as his red corduory shirt. (Months later, he said that he was REALLY tired-- a long day of work then he had to stay longer for the party so he can clean it up afterward...). We kept it short because he was tugged by his former girlfriends to join their group (on that day, three exes of his were in the same room as me.).
His friend totally hit on me. He flirted with me a bit, but he forgot my name so he thought he can be smooth by asking my husband for my name and I saw him asking in the corner of my eyes-- I brazenly replied: "Do you know that I am right here and you can actually ask me for my name? Why bother asking C (my husband)? We just met today so how lame that you just met me too and you forgot my name already??" The friend was speechless but I made a lasting impression on my husband. (one of my faults that I apparently cannot dissolve to today but he certainly liked it. Wonder if his opinion changes today??? Naw, I don't think so-- after all he is still fascinating with me!)
After my 18th birthday, I bumped into him in a late-night deaf coffee night couple of times before he found out my AIM screenname and it was a smooth sailing from there.

:cuddle: By the end of Janurary, he and I were intimate after a month of gravity working its magic to pull each other together. .
 
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