how can i .....

fei ku said:
yea i know.....what is wrong with him....why cant he believe me that i do tell the truth......obvious maybe he like that person or what?? .....he said that i dont know how to tell him the truth that i dont like him it make me pissed off and told him that i do like him alot grrrrrrr
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If he still doesn't believe you, then he's not worth keeping....You need a good man who will believe you ...

:hug:
 
i talked with him.....i assume he isnt interest in me.....*sighs*
 
ah shucks his loss :dunno:

I assume he's just weird and proably likes someone else already and didnt even tell you about that...so like I said, his loss.

he must be an :asshole:
 
i dont think hes an asshole for not being interested in her... he may not want to hurt her feelings maybe?

i mean... im sure theres more guys who likes you fei ku and u dont have same feelings back to them and u try to be nice or something? i know you lol u dont get bitchy at them heh.

maybe its best idea to be a friend to him and let courses go by itself naturally. see what happens?
 
That is sad, your whole life evolve around that guy...

Why not go on vacation? Go tahiti and learn about other cultures or help feed children?

There are so many thing to do than to wonder about your love life.

So when he finally realizes that you really like him and then what?

Marriage, 5 babies, happy ever after???
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Why not just be his friend and move on?
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I'm sure she already has so there's just no need to keep giving her anymore advices afterwards. She'll be fine.
 
fei ku said:
i talked with him.....i assume he isnt interest in me.....*sighs*
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Did he said that in exact words? Must be another bimbo he is interested in. :roll:
 
He will realize that he made a miskate for not trying to give it another chance to "dating" with you to seeing how everything is going.

:hug: Im right here for you! :D
 
He doesn't know what he's missing your a great woman fei ku he'll relize what he's missing and you can laugh in his face saying you had a chance to get this and ha ha you can't have it now
 
I dunno about you guys but I sense this guy sounds like a player most likely a guy that leads women on. I avoid guys like that. It's more like a guy trying to get a way out by saying, "Oh you don't like me." Sounds fishy to me. I bet you this guy has feelings for someone else but cannot tell the truth, Eeek about men like that. I prefer men who are honest not a player or a person who trying to get out of a situation when it comes to a person that likes him. :roll:
 
Maybe it is the woman and not the man who is the player and has feelings for somebody else?
 
Taylor said:
Maybe it is the woman and not the man who is the player and has feelings for somebody else?
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how could someone be called a player when someone was trying to say that he/she has feelings for you and you just dont believe that person and go off saying he/she's a player just because you THINK he/she likes someone else without explaination or proof? try again. :roll:
 
Steel X said:
how could someone be called a player when someone was trying to say that he/she has feelings for you and you just dont believe that person and go off saying he/she's a player just because you THINK he/she likes someone else without explaination or proof? try again. :roll:
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Because he never said anything about not liking her, nor did he ever tell her he didn't want to talk to her. She said that she was interested in him, and he said he was interested in her. He later found out that she was interested in some other people and he asked her about it. She denied it and he believed her and continued talking to her. Then he later learns that she does like some other people. He is fine with her liking other people but doesn't like being lied to.

So, what do you call a woman who says 'I like you and only you' but says it to 2,3,4 other people? To me, that doesn't make him the player (as was said in this thread). And this isn't a matter of him THINKING he/she likes them, but is something that he has seen with his own eyes and was pointed out to her. Hearing it from multiple people (including her friends) doesn't make the best proof but makes it something to look further into. Seeing it with his own eyes, however, IS proof and not just a hunch he had. So, try again :roll:
 
If he doesnt like someone who seems to be such a liar to him, then the least he would do is just leave the person alone and move on...at least it that person never said "love" which is obvioulsy a very powerful word and seems that he takes it too seriously when he thinks that the certain person likes someone else, well shit happens! if you want the person to be happy about it when the person never said anything about being crazy about you or wanted to see you in person or anything like that but if someone says he/she likes you alot, thats cool but its not as serious as someone saying he/she loves you like fuck and wanna get together with you, then you have the right to be pissed as fuck when you find out that he/she likes someone else, but in this kind of situation, that's completely different.
 
He wasn't pissed about her being friends with anyone else and he wasn't pissed or upset about her having crushes on other people. That is not what upset him. What upset him is that he was lied to and what good is any type of relationship (whether friends, lovers, crushes, or any type of contact) if one cannot be honest with the other. She then turns around and throws a guilt trip on him for being upset about being lied to. If she is happy with somebody else, he wasn't about to stand in the way of that and he had no issues about it. His issue was things being untruthful and I don't think he can be blamed for wanting a little honesty from friends.
 
well just drop it....i already talked to him abt it....hope he and i will be fine from now on .....*sighs*
 
Tlc

fei ku said:
how can i wake that guy that i really like ALOT up to see that i do really like him more than just a friend....cuz he think that i like someone else more than a friend but it not true.....i do like him alot but he dont believe in me....how can i wake him up to see the truth that i really like him alot.....*sighs* i dont like anyone else except him.....why cant he believe in me???
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Remember.... TLC take 2 people to work each other as well as together.....

T- Truth
L- Love
C- Communication

If he can not provide you the TLC you need, it is best for you to move forward to find someone that can provide your need.

The way I see that you are putting more emotional than he is. So step back a bit and continue what you love about yourself. He may want to get back to you if you can step back a bit and focus on yourself.
 
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