whatdidyousay!
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I'm frustrated. My mother has chronic pain and as of yesterday, she's taking to sleeping on the floor with her legs up. My father doesn't think that's a good idea to stay like that all night but she's in a foul mood. Adding to that, my newest cat, Gracie attacks all of us (she's a kitten) and my mother is talking about getting her declawed. We did that with all our cats - our Vet in fact has done that with all of hers too. These days, I'm not behind it. I know she's cutting me alive and I can't hold her or cuddle like I did with my other cats but I don't want to do that to Gracie. I don't believe in the procedure anymore...and her being young, I know it's a phase she'll outgrow. I'm sure my mother is speaking from pain and a lack of sleep but it upsets me to have her take it out on us. Unfortunately, out of consideration for my father, I have to bite my tongue....
I am sorry to hear your mother it's chronic pain ,but I sure hope your cat will get declawed b/c that is very to cats and so cruel .