Homemaker's jobs?

[nozobo]

just like i said all along.. i believe in equality.. 50/50.. and have weekends off like i always do except washing dishes and cooking dinner.. lol.. then on weekdays i do the chores..

I work fulltime at a odd fixed schedules, I do still help my partner around the place when I can, I do believe people shold be equality 50/50. When I get home from work, I usually take a break then get back into energy to do whatever things need to be done before dinnertime...

 

[Neo]

my husband and I do equal work with our kids, but for the household work, I do about 90% of it. My husband helps me out with a few things and that is all I ask from him. It's worked out pretty well for us so far.

CJ is very cool dude.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

I forget this thread here until I saw today... Occchhh...

Your first response post.

I never thought of the weekends. Good question!!! Now that I think about it, whenever I visit them, she is still taking care of the house and kids while he watches tv. In fact, she did mown the lawn one time when I was there. Yea, my friend told her hubby that she is burnt out and he laughed at her cuz he thinks taking care of the kids and the house is such an easy job.

Easy job?

I would suggest your friend to go away for a week break to let her hubby find out himself how easy job to take of kids or not.

OR

Pretend ill in the bed and unable to take care of housework and kids then he will see it himself.

OR

Your friend should firm with her hubby that she want wage for her job as housework and take care of the kids for all the week without break...

How many leave annual per year and US public holiday, her hubby have? Her friend also want her right to have break as well.

Hehehehehe Halford.


Anyways, Liebling..about weekend chores, I talked with my friend about that issue. She said her husband is supposed to be responsible for the yard work or repairs but he is a huge proscinator so she ends up doing it. Interesting.

I told her about having the weekends off and that she should have the weekends off too. She liked that idea. LOL!

I do not see an excuse for his action... :roll:

Yes she should have the weekends off... Just go away for the weekends... Try it at begin to see how he feel... If he is mad with her then she should smart him that he has his leave annual and US public holiday... why can't she have as well then?

 

[lilylover72]

I stay home. I clean the house, do food shopping, take my son to school and pick him up after school, laundry, etc. My husband take care of outside. If I was sick, He would cook and clean. He is so good cook. If anything break at my house so he can fix. We are even.

 

[shel90]

I forget this thread here until I saw today... Occchhh...

Your first response post.


Easy job?

I would suggest your friend to go away for a week break to let her hubby find out himself how easy job to take of kids or not.

OR

Pretend ill in the bed and unable to take care of housework and kids then he will see it himself.

OR

Your friend should firm with her hubby that she want wage for her job as housework and take care of the kids for all the week without break...

How many leave annual per year and US public holiday, her hubby have? Her friend also want her right to have break as well.






I do not see an excuse for his action... :roll:

Yes she should have the weekends off... Just go away for the weekends... Try it at begin to see how he feel... If he is mad with her then she should smart him that he has his leave annual and US public holiday... why can't she have as well then?

There are some issues with them that I really do not understand..let's just say that he is the worst person for husband material. I would have divorced him a long time ago if he was my hubby.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

There are some issues with them that I really do not understand..let's just say that he is the worst person for husband material. I would have divorced him a long time ago if he was my hubby.

Yeah, me either.

Your description about him sound selfish but I don´t want to negative him to you but try to postive my posts since you ask us for feedback because they are your friends. Now you open to say what you think of him... I has to give you right what you thought about him. I would divorce him either.

I think your friend should do something with "wake-up calling" to scare him off. It would prove her if he really loves her then do something to save his marriage with her... If not, oh well, she has to accept what he is or leave him... She do not need to complaint if she decides to stay being married to him than do something "wake-up calling" or leave him.