Heteroflexible: Girls kissing girls is the latest trend

Women kissing women don't turn me on because I want to be the one kissing both of them.
 
jillio said:
Because it is possible to have an intelligent conversation with you, and that is not possible with him.

And your reasons for being uncomfortable may have a very different base than his.

Here is the thing...if you know that homosexual men are interested only in other homosexual men, why are you uncomfortable with them? It certainly isn't contagious. They aren't going to hit on you if you are straight. What is there to be afraid of?
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This is not quite accurate Jillio. When I was in the Army all 115 lbs of me dressed in my green mechanics flight suit, green baseball cap and black combat boots, I got hit on all the time. Apparently the lesbians in the outfit assumed I was gay because of my being a helicopter mechanic. It was not a comfortable situation. First you know you are going to turn someone down who has already worked up the guts to ask you out anyway. Called for lots of diplomacy. But maybe that is where some discomfort arises from.
 
I believe discomfort comes from insecurity.

If you have an underlying fear that gays are going to try to convert you or hit on you, that explains why you feel the way that you do.

I used to have that fear but as we get older, we either learn to be more comfortable with ourselves or we drift off in the opposite direction and become more embittered and fearful.
 
fredfam1 said:
This is not quite accurate Jillio. When I was in the Army all 115 lbs of me dressed in my green mechanics flight suit, green baseball cap and black combat boots, I got hit on all the time. Apparently the lesbians in the outfit assumed I was gay because of my being a helicopter mechanic. It was not a comfortable situation. First you know you are going to turn someone down who has already worked up the guts to ask you out anyway. Called for lots of diplomacy. But maybe that is where some discomfort arises from.
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That is a case of mistaken identity based on appearance. Had the ones hitting on you have known you were straight, they would not have hit on you.

And, if one is comfortable in their sexual identity, they don't see a case of mistaken identity as posing a threat.
 
BradB08 said:
I believe discomfort comes from insecurity.

If you have an underlying fear that gays are going to try to convert you or hit on you, that explains why you feel the way that you do.

I used to have that fear but as we get older, we either learn to be more comfortable with ourselves or we drift off in the opposite direction and become more embittered and fearful.
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Exactly.
 
imdeafsowhat said:
But does it make the brothers gay? Or is it just a family love?
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depends on what kind of kiss. if it's something like french kiss... that is.... questionable :io:. If it's just a quick peck on cheek... it's a common greeting gesture especially Italians.
 
Ok, you asked what kind of a kiss it was.

It was a kiss where you start off with wetting your lips and warming it up so it can be soft. When the kiss begins, it starts very slowly before the lips touch each others, they quaver for few milliseconds as if it were a hesitation, but the moment they touched, there's a warmth feeling going through out the whole body and the toes tingling then when the tongue begins to dig, it's actually calling out the other tongue to come out and play. As they begin to touch, it got intense, and increased the tempature of the heat. BAM, THE TONGUES GOES WILD, SMOTHERING ALL OVER, MAKING KNOTS, OH, IT'S SO KINKY!


Is that gay? HAHAHA. I love exaggerating.
 
imdeafsowhat said:
Ok, you asked what kind of a kiss it was.

It was a kiss where you start off with wetting your lips and warming it up so it can be soft. When the kiss begins, it starts very slowly before the lips touch each others, they quaver for few milliseconds as if it were a hesitation, but the moment they touched, there's a warmth feeling going through out the whole body and the toes tingling then when the tongue begins to dig, it's actually calling out the other tongue to come out and play. As they begin to touch, it got intense, and increased the tempature of the heat. BAM, THE TONGUES GOES WILD, SMOTHERING ALL OVER, MAKING KNOTS, OH, IT'S SO KINKY!


Is that gay? HAHAHA. I love exaggerating.
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yes VERY VERY gay for 2 brothers to do that to each other but that's incest as well. It's no different from a brother and sister doing that to each other. :iough:
 
jillio said:
That is a case of mistaken identity based on appearance. Had the ones hitting on you have known you were straight, they would not have hit on you.

And, if one is comfortable in their sexual identity, they don't see a case of mistaken identity as posing a threat.
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Well it appeared really to be a case of mistaken identity based on career choice. There was no mistaking that I was female. And when questioned about my thoughts on sexuality by known lesbians in the company I always responded with, "to each his own, but its not for me" . So I'm not certain if the lesbian culture in the military follows what you say are the social constraints of civilian lesbians as I let it be known where my proclivities lay.
 
jiro123 said:
yes VERY VERY gay for 2 brothers to do that to each other but that's incest as well. It's no different from a brother and sister doing that to each other. :iough:
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Kissing isn't incest. Actually having sex is incest.
 
But wouldnt this blatant openess of sexuality get you discharged in the US military? (I personally believe that it is wrong as non-military employers cannot discriminate based on sexuality but yet the military can - double standard.)
 
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