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I'm not sure what do I'm 5 months pregnant it'll be my first child I've been depress lately and frustated cuz my bf haven't been supportive much or comfort me when I need him to he think I should go counseling and talk to someone what can I do try make myself postive and happy while I'm pregnant
 
Yes, it would do you some good if you can find someone to talk to because being depressed while being pregnant is not healthy. Hope everything will be okay for you soon.
 
What about your parents, sweetie? Do you have any family that could help you with your pregancy?
Besides that your BF might not provide enough comfort to you, it is normal to have mood swings during pregnancy.
I too think it is very good idea to go to counselling. Go if you can!
And even better if BOTH of you could go.. but go first by yourself.

Please stay in touch- let us know how are you doing.. you would be due like.. September? what sign would that baby be?

Fuzzy
 
Audiofuzzy said:
What about your parents, sweetie? Do you have any family that could help you with your pregancy?
Besides that your BF might not provide enough comfort to you, it is normal to have mood swings during pregnancy.
I too think it is very good idea to go to counselling. Go if you can!
And even better if BOTH of you could go.. but go first by yourself.

Please stay in touch- let us know how are you doing.. you would be due like.. September? what sign would that baby be?

Fuzzy
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My mother is there and supporting me with my pregnancy u're right about that it is normal to have mood swings during pregnancy mf bf don't like see me like that i tried tell him that part of pregnancy have to accept it he think that the baby made me like that yeah im gonna try my best go to counseling and get some help soon as i can my baby will be due in oct
 
collegegurl said:
I'm not sure what do I'm 5 months pregnant it'll be my first child I've been depress lately and frustated cuz my bf haven't been supportive much or comfort me when I need him to he think I should go counseling and talk to someone what can I do try make myself postive and happy while I'm pregnant
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I was like that myself. I understand your situation. I felt my husband didn't do much for me or took no interest in my pregnancy. My mood was terrible, one day i was fine then the day i be a different person. I went to my GP and told her about it. She said it normal to feel like that. By talking to a counselling does help and make you feel better.
 
Maybe it would do your BF some good then if he reads about pregnancy.
There is so many excellent books about the subject, written in easy language.
It would help you too.
You should buy one to keep at hand at all times. I found out it really helps to have such book at home since we tend to forget things and it is good to read again and be reassured.

Other books- the more info the better- you may get at libraries at no cost.

And especially your BF should read since men tend to know much less about "woman's stuff".

This is so great that you have your mom's support- some girls go thru it alone, you know.. don't worry about mood swings too much since those are caused by hormonal changes you can't help with.
But it's good to have counselling because the counsellor will tell you how to deal with these moods. And your BF should assist you at least once too, your counsellor will tell you when and how to do it. men tend to oppose counselling so don't worry. It can be done.


Good luck with your kiddo, girl :)

keep us posted :)

Fuzzy
 
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