Hey, Sajche.
It might be tough and not as easy as it sounds to get accepted, as certain deafs may prefer to speak to other deafs/hard of hearing people. Not all though.
Are you on facebook? I looked up Deaf related groups there and I see plenty of listings.
DPHH is another way to meet new people (Deaf Professional Happy Hour), you can google it for more info or just go to dphh.com. However there's none in the SD area that I know of, they're just up around LA in Orange/Riverside.