Hearing Impaired

:topic: story just for you, Dixie. What did the nuns say when the priests came to visit the convent?

AMEN! (Pronounced: Ah, Men!) ;) Pause after ah, as ah men are two different words. Thought you'd like that!

I would have to say that deaf and hard of hearing are both the same to me as hoh is consider as deaf too. But Deaf and Dumb is wrong I agree to that and saying deaf and mute is wrong also. But saying hearing impaired don't seems like a bad word or bad thing. Just say I am deaf or hoh that it. Simple enough how you want to put it would be up to you how u want say it. I am sure people will respect that.
 
I'm HOH, but have started telling people I'm partially deaf. For some reason, they understand this better than saying HOH or hearing impaired or have a hearing loss. Dunno why! But it works. :confused:
 
I'm HOH, but have started telling people I'm partially deaf. For some reason, they understand this better than saying HOH or hearing impaired or have a hearing loss. Dunno why! But it works. :confused:


:welcome: to alldeaf, cece77! I just tell people I'm deaf, even though I wear two hearing aids.
 
I'm HOH, but have started telling people I'm partially deaf. For some reason, they understand this better than saying HOH or hearing impaired or have a hearing loss. Dunno why! But it works. :confused:

I've been thinking about doing that. They seem to think I can still magically understand everything they're saying. :crazy:
 
I've been thinking about doing that. They seem to think I can still magically understand everything they're saying. :crazy:

It's getting worse, isn't it? I haven't had anyone ask me how my hearing dog works for me for awhile, as word must have gotten out that I tell them to google it and find out that way.

Magically understand . . . between that and kids today, I swear people are getting dumber all the time! :roll:
 
I never said I'm hoh. I'm such a normal person like everyone does as I always say I'm deaf. But, to hoh I never said deaf I always say hoh. And to hearing I always say I'm deaf until they found out as I don't sound like deaf then I explain to hearing about why I am different. But online, I never write I'm deaf I told them I'm hearing impaired in the way, it looks more formal english only to professional person. The reason I don't like said I'm deaf it makes me look like I'm dumb deaf. I don't wannabe like 'em. It's too embarrassed me.
 
Interestin' thing here, some people told me that I ACT like a hearin' person when I communicate in ASL.. but, really I am totally deaf. That word " hearin' impaired " don't really bother me. I mean, honestly. But, I don't like these words " deaf & dumb ". My mental can function just fine.
 
Interestin' thing here, some people told me that I ACT like a hearin' person when I communicate in ASL.. but, really I am totally deaf. That word " hearin' impaired " don't really bother me. I mean, honestly. But, I don't like these words " deaf & dumb ". My mental can function just fine.

Okay . . . wise guy time! ;) If a person told me that I was deaf and dumb, I'd respond back, "gee, sure is better than being old and impotent!"
 
Okay . . . wise guy time! ;) If a person told me that I was deaf and dumb, I'd respond back, "gee, sure is better than being old and impotent!"

How about this? (I never had a chance to try it out)..... If somebody call you 'deaf and dumb', just point at yourself as you say 'deaf' and point to the other person as you said 'dumb'. That person sure is dumb for calling us 'deaf and dumb'.
 
How about this? (I never had a chance to try it out)..... If somebody call you 'deaf and dumb', just point at yourself as you say 'deaf' and point to the other person as you said 'dumb'. That person sure is dumb for calling us 'deaf and dumb'.

:giggle: I like that.
 
It's funny but I cannot recall a time when someone called me hearing-impaired directly. Maybe indirectly if I'm with some deaf people.

I don't like the term "hearing impaired" overmuch myself as it feels sterile whereas the term "deaf" feel more natural and, I think, less intimidating, eh.

Beside, I think it's easier to apply the 'deaf' word to everyone who's HOH, and fully deaf as we're all on the same ship, basically.

I find it hard to call myself deaf because...i'm not. :) I'm hard of hearing, i have trouble understanding what people say... People tend to assume "deaf" means hearing problems worse than what I have. I don't want to mislead anyone.

My wife tells people I'm deaf - maybe she's more accepting than I am! lol :) :dunno:

Personally I don't see anything wrong with "hearing impaired" but it'd be more apt to say "impaired hearing"
 
While this may be a tad late, here is the exact wording of the church bulletin regarding 'hearing imapaired"

Listening devices are available to enhance your worship experience if you are partially hearing impaired. Please see an Usher if you would benefit from this service, they will be happy to assist you!

Its almost unintentionally funny the way it is written. :giggle:
 
It is my understanding, and my belief, that to refer to an indiviudal as "hearing impaired" focuses only on the lack of hearing and is a negative and medicalized term. I personally use the terms deaf, Deaf, or HOH. It is a term that points tothe disability, and stresses what a deaf/Deaf indiviudal does not have as compared to the hearing. It does nothing to promote a positive view of a deaf persona s a whole and capable indiviudal. I find the term offensive.

It was origninally a term coined my the hearing community in an attempt to be sensitive to the feelings of the Deaf Community; however, it was coined without full knowledge of deafness. The term in and of itself, has a connotation of conferringa disabled status onthe individual. Just as I do not know any blind indiviudals who wish to be call "visually impaired" instead of blind, I do not know, from my experience, any deaf individuals who would prefer to be called "hearing impaired" rather than deaf. Such language puts the disability before the person, and it is the person who should be put first.

I don't refer to people who use wheel chairs as "wheel chair bound" but as people who use wheel chairs. I do not refer to people who have developmental disabilities as "developmentally disabled" but as people who have developmental disabilites. I firmly believe that the way we refer to others who happen to be a bit different from those who fall strictly inside the bell curve says a lot for the way we see those people, and the value we place on them. The disability is not the most important aspect of anyone person. The fact that they are a person first is the most important thing. To refer to them in a way that connotates impairment in functioning is insulting to that person.

I also believe that anyone who has any form of disability that refers to themselves using such terms has been taught that their disability is the defining aspect of who they are, and have also been taught to see themselves as less than the majority due tothier difference. I much prefer to focus on ability in my interactions with people, and not thier inability. Lack of hearing, vision, or mobility does not have to be cause for limitations in functioning.

How do you guys feel about this? Would you prefer to be referred to as a "hearing impaired" person or as a deaf, Deaf, HOH person? And for those of you who happen to be deaf/blind, would you prefer that term, or would you prefer the term "hearing and visually impaired"? And in choosing your preference, could you explian why it is that you choose one or the other?

Thanks for your responses.

I do not like the word "hearing impaired" .... to my opinion it is insulting word...
 
For me.. I say I'm Hearing Impaired or Profound Deaf. OH well It's just label right??

But either who feels comfortable with whichever word that a person feels comfortable with.

ONE THING I hate and that is very insulting which is "DEAF AND DUMB" I hate that one
 
I am new enough to all of this so I don't have an aversion to being called "hearing impaired". Although I do see some of ya'lls point that using the term Impaired puts a negative slant on it, where HOH has a softer feel to it.

I know that I am HOH at a mild level for now (another 5db and I'll dip into moderate) and when speaking with the audio or someone from the deaf/HOH community or informing someone of exactly how bad it is I say I am HOH. When I am with family I say I am going deaf.....no telling when or if it will be total loss, but it is progressive so the terminology fits......or when my wife nags me for not responding to her I tell her "what do you expect I'm deaf, speak up or shut up". We both know I'm not actually deaf but it's easier to say and gets the point across.

For now I don't feel insulted by any of the terminology, except for the deaf and dumb. I understand that back in the day it was referenced that way, but this isn't little house on the prairie. I have actually started to feel offended for some deaf/HOH people when I hear stories about how they are treated.
 
. . . For now I don't feel insulted by any of the terminology, except for the deaf and dumb. I understand that back in the day it was referenced that way, but this isn't little house on the prairie. I have actually started to feel offended for some deaf/HOH people when I hear stories about how they are treated.

Keep reading, Kender. When you come across shel90, take a look at her posts, as she is profoundly deaf, but didn't embrace Deaf culture until about 5-7 years ago. When she was growing up, people often thought she was hearing because of her speech and impeccible speech reading skills (lip reading). She'd rather hang out with friends that are deaf than attend a family get together, which her family just can't understand and, when she does attend, those who are deaf all sit together and talk. She often . . . sorry, I can't tell her story, so she's gonna have to tell you all about it. :) I can hear with my two hearing aids, but without them, almost nothing.
 
Hearing impaired is a medical term, but not even really that anymore. I think most ent doctors prefer the term "hard of hearing" now a days. Hearing impaired is also a term lawyers and disability advocates will sometimes use. The term "Hearing impaired" is not a cultural term or even a term most deaf people use. In my opinion, deaf is deaf whether you are partially deaf of completely deaf.
 
I make no bones about calling myself "deaf" when I meet peeps. If they give me the big brush off, they are simply not worthy of my amazing presence and charm. :giggle:
 
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