I didn't say anything about being the spokesperson for the whole community. All I said was that "English is the 1st language for SOME of the deaf". Actually it was posts from hell that was making it sound like ASL was the 1st language for ALL of the deaf. Thus tell him that!Sometimes it is much better not to delegate oneself as the spokesperson for the whole community.
For you, you may feel English is your first language. It is great for you, I applaud you for knowing your first language and I caution you about speaking for other people and their preferred choice of language.
It is disprespectful to do so and crosses cultural boundaries when one states so boldly without asking so. I would not speak for my husband's first language and I will only speak for my own first language which is ASL.
Besides, why does it always have to be an "one way street" with some of you guys and gals?
That it's supposedly okay for the culturally deaf or ASL users to make "constructive comments" and it isn't for the oral deaf, english 1st, hearing-impaired or hard of hearing?