Did you have exposure to other dhh kids growing up? What about education? Was it just hearing school? Thought except for van Asche and Kelston Deaf Schools, that deaf ed was very mainstream in NZ....it's also been traditionally oral.... I have heard NZSL is hard to learn...still might be fun to learn it as a second language...maybe it might not be as hard this time.Yes i speak orally. My left ear as far as i knew growing up was normal. My parents didnt know i had a hearing problem until i was 4. I do have problems pronouncing certain words with silent vowels etc.
I do not know ASL, or NZSL for that matter. I did try to learn NZSL ages ago but found it was very hard to learn.