Got Disowned?

SkullChick..I am sorry that you are having this problem and hope u will get it resolved. Seems like some people are having difficulties with their families these days. Hmmm..
 
Gee... I'm sorry all of that happened to you. I'm glad you got away.

Now, you can start your own life... with no one to tell you what to do. :)
 
SkullChick, I'm very sorry for the struggles you have with your parents. I hope you can find peace in your new life. :hug:
 
Woah!! I am sorry to hear about what happened. But, I am happy for you that you managed to break free and live your life. You are obviously living a better life without your parents.

As for your brother... Could you try writing a letter to your brother? It sounds like your brother has been through a lot of hardship, too. Worth a try?
 
SkullChick it sounds like you need a hug,things will get better. :hug:
 
I am sorry to hear about this but i agree with others. It may be better to cut the ties with your father and let it go. Prove them wrong and they will gulp in the end. Chin up and dont worry... Keep on what you are doing.... :)

and Oh and try see if you can write letter and get in touch with your brother.. tell him you do care and you didnt forget about him, ok...

All the best luck to you and Jason.. :)
 
Give it a lot of time....you mentioned paranoia before and stress does make it worse. He just paranoid he's losing you. give it time...lot of time...leave it alone for now
 
Celticty said:
Everything will get better over time, just remember that
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wrong. pleasant little clichés like this serve no purpose in the real world. i would advise anyone with a homicidal father to RUN THE HELL AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK.
 
Jeez, after i read this post. I know it is been toughest for you to survive through the years that you had. Now, you're in long distance, proving them a wrong where you have success through, and you're happier where you're in at this time.

Im truly sorry what happened to you but im proud of you what you've been through by STRONG. I admire for that. Ok, just dont look back in the past and just look beyond of the future what you desire to step. Just give them a love such as beginning: mail a card, "i love you, family" something like that. Just give step by step to grow. If i were you, i would show up funeral to prove them that i love them. If i dont show up, it'll HAUNT me for rest of life and itsnt funny. Up to you, ma'am.

Good luck to you both for future.
 
oh my what a stituation your family had wow that is really sad how they been treating you like trash.

but ONLY hold on your new life with jason smile
 
Throw em' out and move on. They are not worth wasting your energy on when they are in that state of mind. Sometimes a troubled relationship will start to flourish when the two are further apart distance wise. This holds true for my own dad and I. When I abruptly moved out of the house at 18 after a nasty argument, I simply did not call home. I told myself if he wants to talk, then he's going to be the one to put out the effort. I've already done all I can. Well after about 4 months, he called and believe it or not, with us NOT sharing the same roof and not having to deal with each other on a daily basis, our relationship grew. However, once I moved back home after the divorce of my ex-husband the relationship once again deteriorated. Even though we share the same roof - we can go 3-4 days without speaking a full sentence to one another. It's just that my dad and I don't go well together. We'd both be much happier if we did not live together. One day I'll get back on my feet and I'll move out and there will be peace again. Right now though it seems as if it is a constant fight with put downs and namecalling. The tension is so ridiculous at times that I believe that my own daughter acts out because she too feels the tension.
 
Sorry to hear your pain and struggling.

Here is the truth based on my experience, it is BEST to let it go and move on. I have let alot shyt go and move on and ended up found myself in far better position anyway. I can bet when you letting go will have positive and magic effect on your life (Of course, won't happen overnight).

About owning and disowning, I am sorry but I do not believe there is such thing as owning another human being, no one owns you period. I viewed "Disown" as pure insult to another human being. So meaning there is no such thing as "Disowned" because no one is owned to begin with. I have 7 years old son right now and I do NOT own him, period. When he grows up I let him choose which path he wants to go, and I do NOT own his destiny because I wanted to see him happy for himself not for myself.

No one owns no body.
 
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