My girlfriend has a friend who is deaf and autistic. You know what it is being with people that are autistic sometimes. Well, this morning, that person who was deaf/autistic knocked on my girlfriend's Mom's door at 7:30 am to drop off cookies. It was an unannounced visit. They weren't expecting her. My girlfriend and her Mom are both upset that person would think to come at 7:30 am in morning waking both of them.
My girlfriend talked to this woman's Mom for advice on this. The Mom said to be happy that the friend wants to drop off cookies. Don't worry about the fact it was 7:30 am. It was 9 am my girlfriend's time verus 6 am the woman's Mom time when my girlfriend texted her. So therefore, the Mom was upset too.
My girlfriend was upset that this woman's Mom seemed to be insensitive to my girlfriend's feeling.
Personally, if someone knocked at my door unannounced at 7:30 am to drop off cookies, I would probably be upset too. I would probably have told her, I do not want the cookies. Come back later, ok?
Looks like it is overblown.