I was born with severe to profound hearing loss in my left ear and profound in my right ear. Just last year I became friends with a group of hearing women. Initially I felt welcome but lately I have been feeling angry.
Three of these women have daughters that have been implanted. They were insulting Deaf people, their lack of speech and ASL that promotes "illiteracy" hence why they decided to implant their girls. At this point I spoke up and told them I was deaf, they were shocked and apologized profusely. Then one insisted that I was hoh because my speech was "normal" (I wear a hearing aid in my left ear which helps assist me when it comes to lipreading)
I even had to show them my audiogram to prove that I was just as deaf as their daughters. I explained to them that every deaf/Deaf/hoh situation is unique. They have said so much that makes me angry. After I confessed that I was deaf they have been putting the pressure on me to get a CI. WHY????????? can't they just accept that CI's are not for everyone. Also I have a pre existing health condition that affects my immunity, hence why I am a bit scared of risking an infection.
I don't feel "broken" or "half a person" because of my deafness. In fact I have embraced the silence. My deafness has made me who I am today. I will never know what it is like being hearing..how can I miss something if I've never experienced it.
Truth be told I would be more than happy to accept the gift of hearing from God but until then I am not willing to get a CI. Today I was surfing the net when I came across this article. Now this is something I would be more likely to consider.
UMHS Press Release: Gene therapy restores hearing in deaf animals
Check it out and I'm curious to hear any imput. Also how long do you figure it would take before the deaf/hoh receive this treatment?
Three of these women have daughters that have been implanted. They were insulting Deaf people, their lack of speech and ASL that promotes "illiteracy" hence why they decided to implant their girls. At this point I spoke up and told them I was deaf, they were shocked and apologized profusely. Then one insisted that I was hoh because my speech was "normal" (I wear a hearing aid in my left ear which helps assist me when it comes to lipreading)
I even had to show them my audiogram to prove that I was just as deaf as their daughters. I explained to them that every deaf/Deaf/hoh situation is unique. They have said so much that makes me angry. After I confessed that I was deaf they have been putting the pressure on me to get a CI. WHY????????? can't they just accept that CI's are not for everyone. Also I have a pre existing health condition that affects my immunity, hence why I am a bit scared of risking an infection.
I don't feel "broken" or "half a person" because of my deafness. In fact I have embraced the silence. My deafness has made me who I am today. I will never know what it is like being hearing..how can I miss something if I've never experienced it.
Truth be told I would be more than happy to accept the gift of hearing from God but until then I am not willing to get a CI. Today I was surfing the net when I came across this article. Now this is something I would be more likely to consider.
UMHS Press Release: Gene therapy restores hearing in deaf animals
Check it out and I'm curious to hear any imput. Also how long do you figure it would take before the deaf/hoh receive this treatment?