That's not moving on because you are continuing to debate with me.
The anti-gay organizations that opposed ALL part of homosexuality, including civil unions, domestic partnership, gay parenting, adoption for gay couples, anti-discrmination law, hate crime protection and other equal rights, so they attacked us for many years. I believe that you rather to have civil unions, but there are a lot of people still oppose to civil unions and many states that banned gay marriage in their constitution does include ban on civil unions too. I have seen many anti-gay people said civil unions is just same as gay marriage, especially NOM opposed civil unions.
We have to strengthen up to get all equal rights that gay people could enjoy, that why I'm active person in political. HRC is only one biggest GLBT organization in US and they have a lot of best things to gay people. I met with a lot of gay people and learned about gay cultures. Do not use me as spread the word because I didn't invent the definition of anti-gay, but it was HRC and long experienced gay people shared with us when deal with people who opposed all types of homosexuality.