Don't get mad at me ladies until you hear me out here.
Here's a question many men wonder about.
"Why do woman always fall for the jerks?"
Here's the thing about that question. Most woman don't even know the real answer themselves. One of the most common answers woman give to that question is "Because they are a challenge".
Now ladies. Read this question and answer it truthfully (To yourself or feel free to share).
You're in a public place where people socialize (Party, Bar, Coffee house, etc...). You have a couple of your friends with you (female friends). You and your friends meet a group of a few guys. You're all talking, dancing, playing pool or what ever. You get to talking with them a little.
One of these guys is a very nice guy. He's friendly, polite, would open the door for you and so forth.
Another guy is loud, even a bit obnoxious. Controlling of his friends. Sometimes funny. He doesn't care what anyone else thinks of him. Doesn't do anything that demonstrates he's a "Gentlemen" in any way. If you where to walk through a door he'd run through it ahead of you and tell you to hurry up and get your butt in there.
Now honestly, which guy seemed more appealing to you?
I wondered why this was for years and I finally found out why this is. But it just strikes me funny as to how often even woman don't now why they would be attracted to the second guy above. It's not because they are a challenge. It's not even about their looks (I didn't mentioned their looks at all above).
It goes back to our instincts. Back to when mating was a matter of survival of our species. The quiet, nice guy was not the leader. They where generally not the smartest, strongest or healthiest. A strong, healthy and dominant male was more likely to produce a strong and healthy offspring.
It's not a survival issue anymore but we still have these instincts. Men are also attracted to woman for many of the same reasons. Wider hips, larger breast, etc.. Think about it and you realize these things are also a matter of producing a healthy offspring.
I just find it odd that most woman don't seem to realize this.
Don't get mad, it's just an observation.
Ron
Here's a question many men wonder about.
"Why do woman always fall for the jerks?"
Here's the thing about that question. Most woman don't even know the real answer themselves. One of the most common answers woman give to that question is "Because they are a challenge".
Now ladies. Read this question and answer it truthfully (To yourself or feel free to share).
You're in a public place where people socialize (Party, Bar, Coffee house, etc...). You have a couple of your friends with you (female friends). You and your friends meet a group of a few guys. You're all talking, dancing, playing pool or what ever. You get to talking with them a little.
One of these guys is a very nice guy. He's friendly, polite, would open the door for you and so forth.
Another guy is loud, even a bit obnoxious. Controlling of his friends. Sometimes funny. He doesn't care what anyone else thinks of him. Doesn't do anything that demonstrates he's a "Gentlemen" in any way. If you where to walk through a door he'd run through it ahead of you and tell you to hurry up and get your butt in there.
Now honestly, which guy seemed more appealing to you?
I wondered why this was for years and I finally found out why this is. But it just strikes me funny as to how often even woman don't now why they would be attracted to the second guy above. It's not because they are a challenge. It's not even about their looks (I didn't mentioned their looks at all above).
It goes back to our instincts. Back to when mating was a matter of survival of our species. The quiet, nice guy was not the leader. They where generally not the smartest, strongest or healthiest. A strong, healthy and dominant male was more likely to produce a strong and healthy offspring.
It's not a survival issue anymore but we still have these instincts. Men are also attracted to woman for many of the same reasons. Wider hips, larger breast, etc.. Think about it and you realize these things are also a matter of producing a healthy offspring.
I just find it odd that most woman don't seem to realize this.
Don't get mad, it's just an observation.
Ron
Often young girls fall in love with the jerk, bad or stupid guys while they were teenagers to 30's until they leave them for good guys in 40's.
I wonder if I should try the opposite next time? ((rubs chin))
