coolgirlspyer90
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okay so, I met this girl through my boyfriend when He and i first started dating, at gallaudet when i came down to visit him in fall of ’12, anyways, she and I have been good friends and I always go up to her to vent out about my parents because my parents and I have been having some drama with me going to Gallaudet and she wants me to ignore my parents and do what i want to do but i’m always nervous about feeling like i done the wrong thing so i don’t do what i want to do and end up listening to my parents.
So recently after winter break this past month, i went to her again to vent out because she always listened to me venting out and she gives me advice from time to time but this time, she got annoyed with me and basically exploded in my face about it. and i left her alone for awhile. usually when I have a situation I need to talk to someone about it so i can think things through a little bit better and know what is the right action for whatever situation that i am in.
So then i tried making a conversation with her a few days later and we were talking about something and i got confused about something in our conversation and she got annoyed with me because she thought i was making myself sound awkward in front of her so she didn’t want to talk to me anymore and made up an excuse saying she has homework to do. so then i left her alone again for awhile and I tried talking to her like how we talk and when i try to make a conversation with her all she says to me is “cool” or “okay” and thats basically it. and I just have this sick feeling in my stomach about it.I want to talk to her like how we talked to each other to solve our situation but i’m just like nervous she’ll blow up because she can be harsh. like how band directors can be harsh when they're giving criticism to someone about how they're playing. i’m just really nervous because i’m trying to figure out what to do like choose the right words without upsetting anyone or causing any drama.
I mean, I'm looking for the right words to say because i don't want to upset her or cause any drama at all. like in the first year when i first met her, she was in a lot of drama with this girl and her best guy friend which this girl and this guy were doing bad things and dating off and on (and now is engaged), and then last summer to i think fall break she was in a lot of drama with her ex-boyfriend and i'm just afraid with whats been happening with the drama she went through she will explode on me because she can be bluntfully harsh. I don't like confrontations but I do want to talk to her without getting her upset or cause more drama with her. I'm looking for the right words to say.
I'm just looking for some advice so i can think things through. I can't really talk about it with my parents because they always turn things into a negative conversation. So right now, I don't know what to do other than talk to her or just let it drop and see if she and I can move on from this or not. I don't like arguing with friends, it was never my forte. When i am upset i have to talk to someone so they can help me think things a little bit better. But I want to go to someone that has more experience so I thought of AD.
This is going to be one long year.
So recently after winter break this past month, i went to her again to vent out because she always listened to me venting out and she gives me advice from time to time but this time, she got annoyed with me and basically exploded in my face about it. and i left her alone for awhile. usually when I have a situation I need to talk to someone about it so i can think things through a little bit better and know what is the right action for whatever situation that i am in.
So then i tried making a conversation with her a few days later and we were talking about something and i got confused about something in our conversation and she got annoyed with me because she thought i was making myself sound awkward in front of her so she didn’t want to talk to me anymore and made up an excuse saying she has homework to do. so then i left her alone again for awhile and I tried talking to her like how we talk and when i try to make a conversation with her all she says to me is “cool” or “okay” and thats basically it. and I just have this sick feeling in my stomach about it.I want to talk to her like how we talked to each other to solve our situation but i’m just like nervous she’ll blow up because she can be harsh. like how band directors can be harsh when they're giving criticism to someone about how they're playing. i’m just really nervous because i’m trying to figure out what to do like choose the right words without upsetting anyone or causing any drama.
I mean, I'm looking for the right words to say because i don't want to upset her or cause any drama at all. like in the first year when i first met her, she was in a lot of drama with this girl and her best guy friend which this girl and this guy were doing bad things and dating off and on (and now is engaged), and then last summer to i think fall break she was in a lot of drama with her ex-boyfriend and i'm just afraid with whats been happening with the drama she went through she will explode on me because she can be bluntfully harsh. I don't like confrontations but I do want to talk to her without getting her upset or cause more drama with her. I'm looking for the right words to say.
I'm just looking for some advice so i can think things through. I can't really talk about it with my parents because they always turn things into a negative conversation. So right now, I don't know what to do other than talk to her or just let it drop and see if she and I can move on from this or not. I don't like arguing with friends, it was never my forte. When i am upset i have to talk to someone so they can help me think things a little bit better. But I want to go to someone that has more experience so I thought of AD.
This is going to be one long year.