Friends or More? (Guys Help!)

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Lil_country_gal

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I Have a really good guy friend Named Matt and we've been friends for 2 years now and we talk alot. Cause we are always running into each other being plays choir or in the wood shop. Well a couple of times I've been walking with one of my girls and we'll see Matt and i'll say something to the affect of hey (his last name) how ya doing? And the usual response is big smile i'm doing great you? and my friend see's this and her response is i've never seen him smile like that to anyone else i think he likes you. Now I've asked him to come with me to a concert and i haven't gotten a reply only cause that is a play night and he may not be able to. But was excted when asked. To you guys does it seem like he likes me or is it just friends ps. I've had a crush on him for 2 years but have never gone forward just cause we weren't really friends yet and i wanted to get to know him better before i went forward so my question to the males it to you does it seem like he likes me or is more of just friends? Thankyou :ty:
 
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hey lil country gal, that's a good question you're asking. I m a guy to give you a better idea of whether he likes you romantically or as a friend, the direct approach is best. Guys usually don't "get it" when a girl likes them unless the girl makes it pretty clear :lol: (in a nice but clear way) Your friend's comment regarding the way Matt smiles at you might indicate that he likes you or that he was happy to see you as a friend. It's hard to tell unless you know him well enough to figure out the difference. Hope this helps :)
 
Teenage guys are the most non-committal creatures on the planet. They won't tell you they like you. They won't tell you they don't like you. They're more fickle than high-strung birds.

Good luck.

If he has any sense at all in the universe, he will jump at the chance to date you.

Alas, he's a teenage guy - he is easily a decade away from having a scap of sense.
 
1blue_leopard said:
hey lil country gal, that's a good question you're asking. I m a guy to give you a better idea of whether he likes you romantically or as a friend, the direct approach is best. Guys usually don't "get it" when a girl likes them unless the girl makes it pretty clear :lol: (in a nice but clear way) Your friend's comment regarding the way Matt smiles at you might indicate that he likes you or that he was happy to see you as a friend. It's hard to tell unless you know him well enough to figure out the difference. Hope this helps :)
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80% agree with "1blue_leopard" but then the rest 20 agree with "MorriganTait"


but when considered the way matt smile i think he like ye ether. when said abt me heartly well i dnt give a big smile 2 everybdy its only the special person/people who get to see that. be more specific & talk to him directly, just give a shot dnt worry. what happens, happens for gud.


all the best.
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Ok so i asked him to come to the ken davis concert with me and he said he can't miss more than 1 day of the play and he's already missing saturday for his cousins wedding but he looked at me with kinda a sad face and said i'm really sorry maybe another time. and i felt so bad but it was so cute and than later he was in this huge rush and needed a piece of scap metal to make thunder and i was in the metals office thank god and he saw me bent down so he could see into the window and again gave me a huge smile and than had to run out. ok there's more information for you to go of
 
To be honest It's hard to tell if the guy likes you or not, It has to come from inside of him or how you both approach to each others, You see each other's's body language or pick up line, Then you'll know from there if he likes you or not without having him to say it out of his mouth. You know that some guys aren't very out going when it comes to expressing their feelings, Sometimes we (women) have to pick up their signals. Why don't you and him just kick back and have fun while together because direct approach always works better. :)
 
1blue_leopard said:
hey lil country gal, that's a good question you're asking. I m a guy to give you a better idea of whether he likes you romantically or as a friend, the direct approach is best. Guys usually don't "get it" when a girl likes them unless the girl makes it pretty clear :lol: (in a nice but clear way) Your friend's comment regarding the way Matt smiles at you might indicate that he likes you or that he was happy to see you as a friend. It's hard to tell unless you know him well enough to figure out the difference. Hope this helps :)
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Blue Leopard..

Your statements exactly. We did regret for those years... actually, when I saw my bf ( that time we were not date) first sight. I reall y l ikes him alots.. and he feel same way. But we don't know each others and not sure if he likes me or not.. Years go by, we got talk by little by litte. somehow we lost in touch, til a friend got me his sn. and.. He finally admitted to me, that he want to date w/ me.. I was shocked. and good thing i'm single that time. And, he do really want me in long time ago. He said, wish have that gutted to ask me that day. But did regretted it. We re happy together tho.

I suggest, try to hang w/ him and to get know.. and take a date prolly. see if he can openly conversation.
 
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