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Hi!! my name whitney. i always look at board but i register today to post this. i born in indiana but my parents very young and it very hard to raise child with disability/deaf. they give me to state of indiana so i have better life!! i dont get adopted so state of indiana give me to state of california so i can go to special school for the deaf and live in home for deaf! i turn 18 and graduate school so i move back to indiana because california is very expensive!! i live in indiana now and i rent room in big boarding house! i have two jobs. i work at golden coral as dishwasher and purdue as janitor! i very happy!! i dont know anyone in indiana i havent met friends yet. i want to find my birth parents and see if they want to be friends and thank them for giving me better life!!! but i dont know how to do this. i look up my last name on whitepages.com but there are a lot of them with my last name. does anyone have ideas? thank you!!!!!!!!!!
 
Hi and welcome to AllDeaf.

If you have your parents' full names and last-known city/town/township of their residency. If they aren't listed in the directory, look up the list with your last name in the same or next to the town, it is possible they are related to you.

There is PeopleFinders.com that would allow you to see possible/close relatives/associates to your parents. The site is not free to use, but you can see the names and try finding them in the phone directory.

Best luck on finding your parents. :)

Btw, go Purdue Boilmakers! Several of my relatives were educated at the main campus in WLaf. :)
 
Do you have a copy of your birth certificate? It should mention the names of your parents since you wasn't adopted. Also it would tell you your birthplace if you don't already know. It should be easier to find your father as women change their last name when they get married. Good luck!
 
Hello, welcome to AD.

Have you tried contacting the State of Indiana and the deaf school you went to to see if they have information they can give you or if they have advice to help you?
 
ILoveTarget said:
Hi!! my name whitney. i always look at board but i register today to post this. i born in indiana but my parents very young and it very hard to raise child with disability/deaf. they give me to state of indiana so i have better life!! i dont get adopted so state of indiana give me to state of california so i can go to special school for the deaf and live in home for deaf! i turn 18 and graduate school so i move back to indiana because california is very expensive!! i live in indiana now and i rent room in big boarding house! i have two jobs. i work at golden coral as dishwasher and purdue as janitor! i very happy!! i dont know anyone in indiana i havent met friends yet. i want to find my birth parents and see if they want to be friends and thank them for giving me better life!!! but i dont know how to do this. i look up my last name on whitepages.com but there are a lot of them with my last name. does anyone have ideas? thank you!!!!!!!!!!
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SSI might help you or your old caseworker. It help me find my dad and my mom. I was in foster care in CA. Best is the SSI or caseworker who work your case ;)
 
Hello IloveTarget,

Take my word.. I recommend you go through this link
http://www.google.ca/search?client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&channel=s&hl=en&q=search+birth+parents&meta=&btnG=Google+Search

What more, I'm adoption and found my birth mother where I did register so many different website through ... until someone who looking for you.. One day, whoever will contact you directly privacy emails. You search your birth Mom or Dad and found your parent.. contact the person who handled the website. The person will be very happy discuss w/you and will contact your Birth Mom or Dad.

Hope you will find them soon.

I'm reunited my birth mom and still searching my birth Father.

Good Luck!
 
Go out to the courthouse in Indiana where you were born and asked for information, so they will give you the name of your birth mother and/or dad. That's how I found my birth mom. :aw:
 
Brian said:
Hi and welcome to AllDeaf.

If you have your parents' full names and last-known city/town/township of their residency. If they aren't listed in the directory, look up the list with your last name in the same or next to the town, it is possible they are related to you.

There is PeopleFinders.com that would allow you to see possible/close relatives/associates to your parents. The site is not free to use, but you can see the names and try finding them in the phone directory.

Best luck on finding your parents. :)

Btw, go Purdue Boilmakers! Several of my relatives were educated at the main campus in WLaf. :)
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hi Brian! thank u for ur help. i don't have first name but i have my last name. purdue is very nice school! i love working there!!!
 
Buffalo said:
Do you have a copy of your birth certificate? It should mention the names of your parents since you wasn't adopted. Also it would tell you your birthplace if you don't already know. It should be easier to find your father as women change their last name when they get married. Good luck!
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hi buffalo!! thank u. i don't have copy of my birth certificate but i have social security card!!! i dont know where in indiana i was born.
 
ClearSky said:
Hello, welcome to AD.

Have you tried contacting the State of Indiana and the deaf school you went to to see if they have information they can give you or if they have advice to help you?
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hi clear sky!! i contact my case manager at deaf school and she said not to look for my parent just find new friends! i dont believe her though. i want to find my birth parents. who do u think i contact at state of indiana? do u know how i get my birth certificate? do my birth certificate have parent phone number on it?
 
ILoveTarget said:
hi clear sky!! i contact my case manager at deaf school and she said not to look for my parent just find new friends! i dont believe her though. i want to find my birth parents. who do u think i contact at state of indiana? do u know how i get my birth certificate? do my birth certificate have parent phone number on it?
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Best to contact your case worker. That how I did to find my parents.
 
Oddball said:
Go out to the courthouse in Indiana where you were born and asked for information, so they will give you the name of your birth mother and/or dad. That's how I found my birth mom. :aw:
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hi oddball! i live down street from court house. can i go to that court house and ask? i dont know where in indiana i born but i sure it is indiana. was your birth mom very happy you find her? i hope my birth mom happy i find her!

thank u for your help!!! i very excited about finding my birth parents.

holidays are sad and maybe they be happy now!
 
My birth father was very pissed off when I found him. :( Some parents may be happy and others may not be.

Since I was adopted, they place all birth certificates in the capitol so you may want to contact Birth Registry in your state capitol. They have websites so you can look for it.

I got my birth certificate from applying online for one so that was how I got mine. It does not list their phone numbers though.

Good luck
 
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