fear of settling down

oh that would be easy for you. cause you're handsome. any woman
want you.

me? I got all kind of problem, and no men want to deal with me.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
oh that would be easy for you. cause you're handsome. any woman
want you.

me? I got all kind of problem, and no men want to deal with me.
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thank you very much for that compliment.

and i think u need to let guys get to know u. i got to know u and i think ur cool. and fun and flirty and i like that in a woman.
 
but I don't want good looking guys.

I want a guy who look like me, and people would say, "whoa, they look like sister and brother. very nice couple."

I saw a short woman at Gallaudet and she was black and had
dreadlock, she was like 4 feet... and her boyfriend is white and tall, 6 feet.
But they have a very cute 2 years old daughter.

I just think when people matching... for date, then they should
match appearance. Right?
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
but I don't want good looking guys.

I want a guy who look like me, and people would say, "whoa, they look like sister and brother. very nice couple."

I saw a short woman at Gallaudet and she was black and had
dreadlock, she was like 4 feet... and her boyfriend is white and tall, 6 feet.
But they have a very cute 2 years old daughter.

I just think when people matching... for date, then they should
match appearance. Right?
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not always...sometimes opposites attrack.
im 6ft 3 inches...my gf is 5ft 5 inches. i got to bend down to hug her.
 
but men don't care about what I want.
and they hate the way I make slow decision.

man would give me ideas and want me to be with him...
he wants me to decide right away.

so anyway...
at LeMoyne Owen College, a black guy stared at me...
sometimes he would let me know he likes me...
And then at tennis class, my tennis balls always end up missing everyday...

I had 10 tennis balls, now I only have 2. I marked my balls with my name intial.... and I figured he did that...

Then in counseling room, me, him, and the counselor were just chatting...
and the counselor reminded him, "you're married!!!"
And I was surprised and he seemed to forgot he was married.

I'm just glad I didn't make a quick decision, because I want to take time
to really know the man, and see who else know about him....
 
Mrs. P
I dont think you have to worry about a man wanting to settle down with you because you are so two face and always maiking up horrible stories, like they raped you. I am scared for all men who even look at you. There is something wrong with you and you neep help.
 
jamielee said:
Mrs. P
I dont think you have to worry about a man wanting to settle down with you because you are so two face and always maiking up horrible stories, like they raped you. I am scared for all men who even look at you. There is something wrong with you and you neep help.
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HEY...watch ur mouth....thats fine if u dont agree with stuff that she says but be nice ok? dont ever talk to her like that again...thats not cool
 
you don't need to defend me, AJ, I can stand up for myself.

Jamielee, Hey I am not "Mrs". You don't know what happen that night, because you weren't there. Only me, that man, and God knows.

That reminds me when I was doing a film project for class at Gallaudet...
an Asian guy stood me up... and I didn't trust him anymore after that.
And then he wants me to contact him again.... but I never contact him again... because I feel he will stand me up...
And he said I am two face...
But that isn't true... because once he screw up my trust, I can't trust him
anymore. So why I want to do my film project with someone I can't trust?
So I did everything by myself, with nobody to help me.

Well I am going to work for AbilityWork next week, and you're better hope no men even look at me.

There are more single women than married women these days...
And there are some people who divorced and remarried...
And there are some people who married twice.

My nephew ain't seen his father since he was 1... and his father
lied that he mailed his pictures to my nephew.
And he lied that he will come see my nephew for Christmas holidays...
And his father never send him a birthday card or toys for Christmas....
And his father stopped paying child support too...

And also... my dad didn't buy me any christmas present or birthday cards.
And he never pay child support...

That is why I am mean to men... because I can't trust giving my HEART
to men... no way.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
you don't need to defend me, AJ, I can stand up for myself.

Jamielee, Hey I am not "Mrs". You don't know what happen that night, because you weren't there. Only me, that man, and God knows.

That reminds me when I was doing a film project for class at Gallaudet...
an Asian guy stood me up... and I didn't trust him anymore after that.
And then he wants me to contact him again.... but I never contact him again... because I feel he will stand me up...
And he said I am two face...
But that isn't true... because once he screw up my trust, I can't trust him
anymore. So why I want to do my film project with someone I can't trust?
So I did everything by myself, with nobody to help me.

Well I am going to work for AbilityWork next week, and you're better hope no men even look at me.

There are more single women than married women these days...
And there are some people who divorced and remarried...
And there are some people who married twice.

My nephew ain't seen his father since he was 1... and his father
lied that he mailed his pictures to my nephew.
And he lied that he will come see my nephew for Christmas holidays...
And his father never send him a birthday card or toys for Christmas....
And his father stopped paying child support too...

And also... my dad didn't buy me any christmas present or birthday cards.
And he never pay child support...

That is why I am mean to men... because I can't trust giving my HEART
to men... no way.
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so...ur a sexist because of your father and the father of your nephew?

if you haven't noticed, there's always good and bad in everything on this Earth.

There would always be some bad men while they would still be plenty of good men around.

Most people do have some good in them even though they dont know how to show it or don't really care about it so yeah that just makes them look bad on the outside then in the inside.
 
my sister made some bad decision, she knew he was married,
but had sex with him anyway. and she knew he was attempted murderer.
he tried to strangled his wife, she knew that, but had his baby anyway.

so she expect that man to be a good father to my nephew.
My mom won't let that man be alone with my nephew, no way.

My mom knew she married a loser, my father...
he dropped out of high school, but still my mom loved him.
he stood my mom up at the prom, but still my mom loved him.
he beat my mom up, but still my mom married him.

I know there are good men out there, but um I'm scare.
I might make the wrong decision.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
oh that would be easy for you. cause you're handsome. any woman
want you.

me? I got all kind of problem, and no men want to deal with me.
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what you have is FOA "Fear of Acceptance"
 
well look at Halle Berry, Sharon Stone, Elizabeth Taylor, and
Vanessa Williams... those beautiful women, and look how long
their marriage lasts.

if those beautiful women can't keep a man, how can an ugly
woman such as me can keep a man???
 
Steel said:
so...ur a sexist because of your father and the father of your nephew?

if you haven't noticed, there's always good and bad in everything on this Earth.

There would always be some bad men while they would still be plenty of good men around.

Most people do have some good in them even though they dont know how to show it or don't really care about it so yeah that just makes them look bad on the outside then in the inside.
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Yah its the same old shit from MP, "poor me......"
 
AJ said:
HEY...watch ur mouth....thats fine if u dont agree with stuff that she says but be nice ok? dont ever talk to her like that again...thats not cool
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shockingly :giggle: , I dont care what you think! :fruit:
 
why not try to live together for long if not work out or whatever just walk away/move on than getting married and divorced/annuliment
 
Freewoman76 said:
why not try to live together for long if not work out or whatever just walk away/move on than getting married and divorced/annuliment
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why not get married and buy 2 house, house for husband
and house for wife. and not have to live together? :dunno:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
my sister made some bad decision, she knew he was married,
but had sex with him anyway. and she knew he was attempted murderer.
he tried to strangled his wife, she knew that, but had his baby anyway.

so she expect that man to be a good father to my nephew.
My mom won't let that man be alone with my nephew, no way.

My mom knew she married a loser, my father...
he dropped out of high school, but still my mom loved him.
he stood my mom up at the prom, but still my mom loved him.
he beat my mom up, but still my mom married him.

I know there are good men out there, but um I'm scare.
I might make the wrong decision.
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there's never a such thing as an easy decision.
 
so what is stopping you from having a nice girl?

Would you want to date me :thumb: ? why not?

I thought you said, "let live, let live."

Why not take a chance to be with anybody and
just be positive and get that person seek help and
just get to know that person... and stuff like that... huh?
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
well look at Halle Berry, Sharon Stone, Elizabeth Taylor, and
Vanessa Williams... those beautiful women, and look how long
their marriage lasts.

if those beautiful women can't keep a man, how can an ugly
woman such as me can keep a man???
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they are celebrities. you can't compare your life as a regular low or middle class person as those high class people like those celebrities because they would still have alot of hard things going through their lives not just because they are rich and famous, but because as they are famous, they would always be busy 24/7 spending more time with their career than with their friends and families...if you can look at Jenniefer Aniston and Brad Pitt...they were goin to have kids but then Jennifer changed her mind cause she wanted to stay "famous" while Brad wants to be a father so he decided to leave her for Angela Jolie, which they are already engaged now. :roll: celebrites rush their wedding plans and other things way too fast than regular, middle or low class people do...just because they are rich and they can do whatever the hell they want with their money as long as in the end they are actually fucking their lives up. being a celebrity doesn't make your life easier...it actually makes it harder cause of making contracts and offers and other shit like that so next time dont compare your life next to any celebrities because they are far different than your own part of lifestyle, is all. As for Halle Berry, she didn't seem to like being married that much so she spends more time in her career than anything else so she seems to enjoy being single and free and all and I'm sure you do too so why tell us that you want a man when you really dont want one and yet they can't respect you because of you making slow decisons then just fuck them and tell them that you are just who you are so...who says you have to have a partner for the rest of your life, hmm? you dont have to...you just WANT to.
 
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