Lil_country_gal
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This is how i dress when my parents are not around because if i dress like this around them i get disowned.
I don't know if I ever had a goth moment. There was a time when I often wore black clothes, but it was because those clothes happened to be there. For instance, my uncle gave me his old leather jacket. It was black. I used to like the LA Raiders football team. Their clothes and hats are black. My mom always preferred black pants. She got me black jeans instead. I applied for a job once while wearing black shoes, black jeans, black LA Raiders T-shirt, black leather jacket, and black LA Raiders cap. At first, people thought I was goth... I just happened to be wearing those clothes that day.
Today, I prefer black because it goes with anything and doesn't get dirty easily. If I had tan pants, a red shirt wouldn't look good with it. If I had a green shirt, a navy blue vest wouldn't look good with it. But, black looks good with anything. Oh, white does too... but it gets dirty too easily... especially with grease from pizzas and wings.
My parents got over it, my dad even likes the lip ring now
Yes, I went thru many hairstyles and phases.Reba - wow.... you look COMPLETELY different from each picture. My entire youth - i look exactly the same.... until I hit end of teenager. I finally broke out of that baby face look!
It went from to
I only dressed up as a goth once for Halloween social night at Deaf school when I was a teenager.
Hehe, maybe that's why I became a terp. I get to wear lots of black!
More black; my "yoga" phase (I think I was 18 then):
That makes it seem like goth is a phase just like the teenage phase to hate your parents. I dont feel like that is the right thing to call goth. Goth is a lifestyle. When you decide or life decides for you that you can no longer dress the part you become
1) A Weekend Warrior: A person who dresses norm 9-5 M-F, but paints their nails black and gets gritty and goth on Friday and takes it all off on Sunday Night.
2) A Casual Goth: Still listens to the music but dresses like a norm.
To say it is a phase can in some goth circles be a huge insult. A bigger insult to those who are 40-45 and still goth.