hey everyone.
i'm an english tutor at a community college. i often see students with learning disabilities, and sometimes students with physical disabilities, but just recently i saw my first deaf tutee. i'd never really thought much of sign language, or considered how different it is from english, so i was surprised that her writing was so different from that of native english speakers.
i think my etiquette was fine; i was polite and was careful to always look at speak directly to her and tried to be helpful, but i'm afraid i didn't help her very much. the interpreter was 30 minutes late, and communicating very specific little details about english through signs was an enormous challenge i wasn't prepared for. and because of restrictions in what i'm allowed to do and a ludicrous time limit for each session, i doubt i even helped her at all. she explained how stressful college was, depending on interpreters that sometimes don't show and are often incompetent, teachers who don't have much patience, etc.
i think the best advice i gave was simply to read something (newspaper or magazine articles, books, etc) for a certain amount of time every day and immerse herself into the written language. afterward, i became curious about deafness and ASL and i've done a little research. i've learned the ASL alphabet, a few words and some things about its grammar of which i was completely ignorant. watching youtube videos showed me that signing is pretty cool and a beautiful language in a way that oral languages are not, and i've bought an introductory book to learn to communicate on at least a basic level. however, if a conclusion can be drawn from reading the comments on those videos and reading deaf forums, it's that english capabilities in the deaf range from incomprehensible gibberish to nearly complete fluency, with most somewhere in the middle. but even for the nearly fluent ones, there are still the occasional mistakes that would seem to the untrained eye to indicate that the author is stupid or uneducated.
if i see this student again i think i'll be able to help her a lot more, but i'm afraid she might have been put off english tutoring for good. has anyone been in a situation similar to mine or hers before? i would appreciate advice from both sides: those teaching/tutoring/helping the deaf, and deaf people who've had good or bad experiences with being tutored.
also, if anyone wants help with their english, i can try to answer any questions you have. if your teachers always give you back your papers with red marks and arrows and underlines and comments everywhere that you don't understand, or you want to check your writing and don't know where the problems are, feel free to type or copy and paste a sample and i'll see what i can do.
i'm an english tutor at a community college. i often see students with learning disabilities, and sometimes students with physical disabilities, but just recently i saw my first deaf tutee. i'd never really thought much of sign language, or considered how different it is from english, so i was surprised that her writing was so different from that of native english speakers.
i think my etiquette was fine; i was polite and was careful to always look at speak directly to her and tried to be helpful, but i'm afraid i didn't help her very much. the interpreter was 30 minutes late, and communicating very specific little details about english through signs was an enormous challenge i wasn't prepared for. and because of restrictions in what i'm allowed to do and a ludicrous time limit for each session, i doubt i even helped her at all. she explained how stressful college was, depending on interpreters that sometimes don't show and are often incompetent, teachers who don't have much patience, etc.
i think the best advice i gave was simply to read something (newspaper or magazine articles, books, etc) for a certain amount of time every day and immerse herself into the written language. afterward, i became curious about deafness and ASL and i've done a little research. i've learned the ASL alphabet, a few words and some things about its grammar of which i was completely ignorant. watching youtube videos showed me that signing is pretty cool and a beautiful language in a way that oral languages are not, and i've bought an introductory book to learn to communicate on at least a basic level. however, if a conclusion can be drawn from reading the comments on those videos and reading deaf forums, it's that english capabilities in the deaf range from incomprehensible gibberish to nearly complete fluency, with most somewhere in the middle. but even for the nearly fluent ones, there are still the occasional mistakes that would seem to the untrained eye to indicate that the author is stupid or uneducated.
if i see this student again i think i'll be able to help her a lot more, but i'm afraid she might have been put off english tutoring for good. has anyone been in a situation similar to mine or hers before? i would appreciate advice from both sides: those teaching/tutoring/helping the deaf, and deaf people who've had good or bad experiences with being tutored.
also, if anyone wants help with their english, i can try to answer any questions you have. if your teachers always give you back your papers with red marks and arrows and underlines and comments everywhere that you don't understand, or you want to check your writing and don't know where the problems are, feel free to type or copy and paste a sample and i'll see what i can do.