DeafDucky
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Ditto to this, even when I list my # I add a "(text only)" so that way I'm clear that I cannot do voice calls. The problem is if you "act" like a hearing person they're gonna get really confused when they wonder, hey why aren't you replying to my phone message. And that might make them wonder if you're trustworthy if you're being sneaky about hiding your disability.
Like Alleycat says, there will always be an a$$hole employer that doesn't care if you can do your job and can't handle you being deaf. It's a mixed blessing if they don't want to hire you, you would be better off waiting out for someone who's nice enough to look past the disability.
I do the same thing if they ask for my cell number or if I use that one- add (text only). Maybe my downfall is is if they see my VRS number "naked"- as in no instructions then the cell with "text only" they will wonder what the heck... So right now I just fall back on the VRS (with VCO- my receptive ASL is better than my expressive ASL sadly) for everything.
I got lucky a few times- one did chat with me via text on skype- that was a rarity amazingly enough in this day of tech. Most people's 'reason' is (even as far back as 2006 when I preferred email...) "It's a fast moving position and we need to fill it now", "Time is of the essence!!" (my personal fave /sarcasm) and "speaking with you on the phone we get a better idea of you, how you react/act and thinking on your feet".
Half the time it is NOT time is of the essence...!