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Well, I have heard people use that excuse. I also know people who do NOT blame other people for their addictions.
My dad was an alcoholic and I never heard him blame anyone else for his drinking.
Your niece didn't have a drinking problem until she picked up her first alcoholic drink and ingested it, did she?
Anyone can become an alcoholic with or without a family history of drinking problems. There are people from alcoholic families who don't become drinkers, and there are people from families with no alcohol history who do become drinkers. It's not the genes they have in common; it's the action of drinking alcohol.
That shows that you made a conscious decision--a choice.
Maybe, maybe not. It probably depends on the policy and the program.
My dad didn't blame his drinking on other people, and my nephew doesn't blame his drug use on other people. Why? Because they see/saw nothing wrong with what they're doing, so they there is not blame factor. There are addicted people who don't see anything wrong with their choices or lifestyles. They have no motivation to change their ways.
People who have the gene for alcoholism have a good chance of becoming alcoholic if they take that first drink. People without can drink socially and have little risk.
If people are educated that it is a disease and that they are prone to it, they are much less likely to start.