Berry
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Hah, and here I thought I was just being funny. But thanks, since I'm pretty sure that was a compliment.
Humor, by its very nature is High Context. Your training is logic, and that is well and good, you are good at it. But your nature is High Context: Embrace it.
YES it is a compliment.
A couple things.
1) Where are people getting upset about Reba "putting down" Muslims?
2) While I accept that I've been mocking, because that's a positive action to me, I'm honestly unsure of what it is that I've supposedly mocked. I made a joke involving a well-known internet meme (Raptor Jesus, see XKCD for the internet obsession with Raptors) and a play on words because "Raptor" and "Rapture" sound vaguely similar.
The bolded part.
Some of us see humor as healing and laughter as the best medicine; We can take it and we can dish it out; We see all forms of humor, comedy, satire, lampoons, etc. as the saving graces of humanity. We see sanity in humor.
Others see them as profane, blasphemy, mocking, insulting, demeaning, and they see all the worst of humanity in humor. Refer the puritan attitudes.
You do understand there's a difference between "mocking" and "putting down" (to use your terms) or "insulting", right?
Perspective: POV: One person's teasing is another's insufferable insult. In our family we tease our little children about the things we know they will be harassed about in school. Why? If the people who love you most tease you about these things how can it hurt if someone else does?
The question is: Is the lack of verbal skills on the part of the thin skinned person the responsibility of the joker or the responsibility of the person who lacks verbal skills and immediately resorts to fists and / or authority to settle the "dispute"?
But even if not, keep in mind that the intent behind a message is something you should try to look for. In this case, I assumed it was plainly obvious that I was just making a joke, and not trying to make any sort of a serious effort at insulting or otherwise seriously make fun of them.
The bolded part: Any time, every time: Not just the net.
I'm not sure what the whole backlash against "you make fun of Christians but not Muslims!" is for, anyways. Fatwa envy, perhaps?
The thread was about Christians. The humor was about certain Christian beliefs. The reference to Muslims was a strawman and had nothing to do with the discussion.
BTW, Fatwa is a more interesting and complex term than most people realize. Too much so to go into here.