second chance is answer yes for after few months to see if things change or not ... I grew up with my wife ... since we met each other in 81' and we have been break up and got back together over the years along with thousand chances !!! until finally in 95' I move out of state for awhile like 6 years later and ran into my wife before we got married ... she asked me back together again ... while i was engage with someone else from other country... so i had to do the pro and con list and compare. that something hit me with the realized that i have a great heart for my wife ... so it is our first time 6 years aparts !! right now we are pretty good with the marriage . Of course it is so many struggle for us to get through ... Thanks God that She gave me that chances even i return her the chances to share too... I am telling u that sometime the aparts of times like a year or so then see if the chances get better or not ... Won't hurt to try again...