VamPyroX
bloody phreak from hell
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That sucks.When I was 19 years old, I had worked at Jack in the Box for almost 4 years at that time. I wanted to move up to Shift Leader cuz I felt that I knew how the restaurant was run from inside out. No, I wasnt looking for career as I was still going to college but wanted a promotion for more money and more challenges since I was so bored with being a cashier, cook, and stocker. Wanted the experience of running a shift and of course, any kind of management experience always looks good on a resume regardless of where the job is at. My boss told me that he couldnt promote me cuz of my deafness...I was shocked and knew something was wrong in the picture but didnt know what. I didnt really understand the ADA and my rights as my parents never really talked about me about those issues. They were in denial about my deafness so I told my mom and she said "You werent seeking a career with Jack in the Box anyway." I took her words to heart but 20 years later to now, I wish I didnt and had fought cuz the company got away with it. I regret quitting after I was told that I would never get promoted. I wish I had taken to the next step but I was just a ignorant kid.
That was a big-time discrimination situation I have ever experienced.
I have experienced discrimination by hearing people for not treating me as someone who has a brain like they do.
I wasn't aware of the ADA when I worked at my local grocery store years ago. I started out as a bagger. It took me a long time to prove that I was worthy of getting a promotion or taking a different position in the store. The reason for not promoting me was because of my deafness. My supervisor eventually saw the potential in me and mentioned that he was going to consider giving me the chance soon. Then he got transferred before it happened. The new supervisor didn't see it that way and I had to prove him. Again, when the time came... he got transferred and I had to start all over each time. It happened 4 or 5 times in 18 months. There were other deaf co-workers who were baggers and they never really did their jobs well. That's probably why I had a difficult time proving myself. The last supervisor was actually the worst. He never intended to promote me. He just told me that I would never get anywhere and that I was deaf and didn't have the skills to be a manager or do anything better than what I was doing.
Then a few years later, I became assistant manager at my local video rental store. One night, he came in as a customer. When he saw me, he chuckled a bit and said something like... "Oh, you're here now? Hahaha... so, what are you? A cashier? Hahaha..." I looked at him straight in the eyes and said, "Nope, I'm the manager. Can I help you with something?" He choked. After a few seconds, he went through his transaction with absolute silence and then walked out in quiet embarrassment.
I wasn't fully aware of the ADA until I went to RIT. (Just like I never knew about ASL until I went to RIT.)